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Rayne Apprentice

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I hate to even reply to this ...

but I gotta say something.

He's an ex. Don't let him run your life. That's exactly what your letting happen if you leave. No matter what, you need to go on with your life and don't let him stand in your way. And since it is a public forum, just watch what you say about your personal life. Feel free to use the *edit post* button when you realize you have said too much.

It gets much easier to deal with -- I promise.

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Rayne Apprentice

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How is one "stalked" on the internet? I don't get it. I understand stalking in person, but it doesn't make sense to me online.

I can tell you that in my case, just about everything I typed just about anywhere was printed out and submitted to the court and used in cases against me. It didn't get the other party anywhere, but it didn't stop them from doing it.

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glc Newbie

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Um, don't know quite what to say here, but I want to say something! You just do what you've gotta do babe. If you leave the board you're not just avoiding your ex, you also lose contact with all these other people. Is is worth it?

Keep well,

G

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Onyx Newbie

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Uh, Lila...

If he's just reading your shit, who cares?

If he's HARASSING you about your shit, tell him to leave you alone, and if he continues to harass you, call the cops.

From my understanding, that's what stalking is. Harassment in some form.

I definitely agree!

So he reads what you write. Why do you care? Just ignore.

If it progresses to harassment, staying off the board won't stop it. It would continue in other ways.

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Onyx Newbie

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Or you could just set up a new account & change the way you word stuff and your mannerism. And I bet nobody would ever figure out that its you.*hint hint*

:woot: :animier:

Really though, nobody should have to do that just to avoid an ex.

Why let someone control you that way?

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Gaf The Horse With Tears Newbie

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Um... Did people miss the part where he is trying to use what she posts here in legal precedings against her?

Though she does post about many things from her personel life that would make her look bad to the eyes of the court... I'm not sure how admissable any of it would be. I'm pretty sure it would all go into the hear say catagory... but, a simpathetic judge may let it go as evidence of her charactor...

If I were invovled in some form of custody battle or other civil legal matter... I would avoid going on a public message board and posting anything that might be used against me.

There is a difference between harassment and gathering evidence.

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Rayne Apprentice

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Um... Did people miss the part where he is trying to use what she posts here in legal precedings against her?

Though she does post about many things from her personel life that would make her look bad to the eyes of the court... I'm not sure how admissable any of it would be. I'm pretty sure it would all go into the hear say catagory... but, a simpathetic judge may let it go as evidence of her charactor...

If I were invovled in some form of custody battle or other civil legal matter... I would avoid going on a public message board and posting anything that might be used against me.

There is a difference between harassment and gathering evidence.

That was me.

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phee Enthusiast

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Um... Did people miss the part where he is trying to use what she posts here in legal precedings against her?

Though she does post about many things from her personel life that would make her look bad to the eyes of the court... I'm not sure how admissable any of it would be. I'm pretty sure it would all go into the hear say catagory... but, a simpathetic judge may let it go as evidence of her charactor...

If I were invovled in some form of custody battle or other civil legal matter... I would avoid going on a public message board and posting anything that might be used against me.

There is a difference between harassment and gathering evidence.

Yeah... that was Rayne not Gothmama

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Gothmama25 Newbie

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I'm done being accused of lying and since noone listens when I do try to explain things, I'm outta here cause I didn't do anything to deserve this. Its some straight up bull shit. I doubt anyone will even care anyways. All I know is I deserve better than this.

To all my "real friends" you have my phone number if you want to contact me.

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