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I totally understand that feeling of wanting to protect the innocent.
We went to school with kids that needed to be rescued and they saw us as their only outlet. Our mother would let them come to our house to play and eat food out of our garden. Sometimes we had to do it in secret for a couple of the kids so their parents didn't retaliate on us...again.
But something happened back then and the system changed because all the struggling kids got extremely overlooked and the system came after us because we were being raised by a single mother of 4 kids. We had food, we had utilities, we were doing good in school, we had a church support system, but the state said their was something wrong with us because there was one son and no father figure...living in the home. 🤨
Every time we had to report to the Children's Center, they kept reminding us about pregnant teens (because there were 3 girls). Sure we used to babysit, but I was 7. I was more interested in taking care of other peoples' kids and sending them home and being paid for a job well done.
They watched us like a hawk until the last of us was 10 years old and our mother had gone back into the workforce.
The system got even more broken by the time the Monchichis came along which is why we made sure to get them and protect them from the state. By that time, they had no shame in there being documentation regarding how much each child in the system was worth to that particular state. And yet, while the city was trying to get their hands on our little ones, I was watching babies under the age of 3 being neglected by 2 households full of adults right across the street from us. And there was nothing we could do because they were already moving the children around to keep them on the move.
Oh my, I really didn't mean to go into all of that, but I still get upset about how the system is still "handling" things.
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