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Happy Birthday =)

hah

A phone call.

Happy birthday sir. =)

Hiya =) *drum roll*

Sounds like long haul to CC from Wolverine. How often do you make it to the club?

Hiya! Welcome to the board. Tell us a bit about yourself if you feel comfortable doing so. =) *drum roll*

Thanks again to everyone for all the very kind hearted comments.

Good advice. You.... omg. Thank you. Im fairly clear on the fact that i dont "need to find the one true love to survive as a human" but the romantic in me doesn't want to quite go so far as to turn "relationship buddhist" and just not desire it, at least not anymore. I was there for a long time. I knew what love was, but not this kind, not this blazing sort of thing that im now, scared to death will not come again. I follow you, and its good stuff. Unfortunately i've been through it , mentally, and live a fairly self-examined life and thought i understood all this already. But, the train-wreck has hit ... regardless of all my philosophizing. (and I've been at it for years) The comments are much appreciated , just not quite hitting home. Having given similar counsel for years, you'd think i'd have it down pat by now. :erm *reads above comment again* sounds just like what i would say to myself , if i'd only listen. *blinks* thanks toni. Thanks Vivian. Sweetheart as always. Been there, many times. Careful sir, its a rough road. Wind up feeling like mildy good for a few weeks/months... and a total and complete jackass for years.

I think , if you find the right one, and her only shortcomming is shes not that great of a kisser... ya probably can teach her. =)

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Its now turned on by default. If you want to turn it off go to My Controls > Email Settings > and un-check the box were it says : "Send a confirmation email when I receive a new private message" For the >VERY

Anyone thinking of going?

DGN @ City Club, Saturday, July 16th Come. Join us. Meet us. Hang out. We're not that scary in person, really. Leland City Club 400 Bagley Street Downtown Detroit You enter by going through an unmarked door on the First Street side of the Ramada Hotel building, located at 400 Bagley Street in downtown Detroit. The club is at the top of the stairwell. (see picture in the link above in the DGN calendar entry) All are welcome. Come meet some of us weirdos. Saturday nights from 10:00 p.m. to 4:30 a.m. Alcoholic drinks until 2:00 a.m., pop and juices served all night. Admission is $4 18 and up, 21 to drink with proper ID (no exceptions). No drugs, weapons, chains, spikes or cell phones. Zoomable map to City Club. MDOT lane closures (The map isn't quite exact. The Ramada is located within the Bagley, 1st, Cass, Plaza Dr. block.) Hope to see you there =) Note: This thread is about who is going to CITY CLUB ON SATURDAY, if you want talk about some other club,going to LCC on some other night,some other place or some other subject? Make a new thread, don't post about it in this one.

lol ASAP =)

Thanks i'd apreciate it.

:confused :doh :erm =(

Thanks for the many, amazingly considerate responses and warm intentions. Im a bit reluctant to start replying as im not wanting to rip open partially healed wound at the moment, and , with so many wonderful posts , i feel if i respond to one i'll have to respond to all of them. I will , just taking me awhile to get my thoughts straight. Thank you all so much.

lol

Shes nice =) Be nice to her. =) *drum roll*

She hasnt been on the board in awhile, but she rocks. =) *waves hello* *drum roll*

Careful sometimes the writing between the lines is very , VERY blurry.

I guess i prefer "myself" shaved, but my skin is very sensitive and the process of shaving can be a bit painful, moreso than i guess it is for the average guy. the last girl i was with told me she prefered it not shaved so im just sort of in a state of flux. Doesnt really matter to me all that much either way, kind of like how i dont nessiarly always care were i go out to eat, if whoever im with wants to go there ill go hehe. Some things are "important" to me , this one isnt, more of a curiousity than anything.

I found about 4 different versions of this but they are all pretty similar: "Have you ever been in love? It makes you so vulnerable. It opens your chest and it opens up your heart and it means that someone can get inside you and mess you up. You build up all these defenses, you build up a whole suit of armor, so that nothing can hurt you, then one person, , enters into your stupid life...You offer them a piece of you. They didn't ask for it. They did something one day, like kiss you or smile at you, and then your life isn't your own anymore. Love takes hostages. It gets inside you. It eats you out and leaves you crying in the darkness, so simple a phrase like 'maybe we should be just friends' turns into a glass splinter working its way into your heart. It hurts. Not just in the imagination. Not just in the mind. It's a soul-hurt, a real gets-inside-you-and-rips-you-apart pain." - Neil Gaiman (Author of The Sandman and other works) Interesting. More due to the source than any "originality" doesnt make it any less true though.

Congratulations, i wish you the best, as always. =)