Lilith

i think alot of us feel that way about CC cause it has stayed open where other clubs have vanished..... any one rember thomas manor???? ( the place lestat hung befor city club), i agree the building is for shit, and frankly i hate being cold every time i go in the winter. i also hate the fact that the bathrooms are not clean. I have been thinking of visiting other places but i have a fear that if i go and i like it it will vanish or change there style to make more money like some other clubs i used to like alot did. As i get older hte fear subsides as i realize a night at the club is really what you make of it, and if you have good freinds with you no matter where you hang out it should be fun.

ok playing devils advocate for a minute.......... i wonder if it would give DGN the personna of haveing an elite crowd or clique where if you are new you are not accepted... might turn some people off to the board. i also wonder if it would limit the amount of new friendshps that develope, i just wonder if the "elite" crowd would end up posting more on the "protected" board then on the reg boards, hence lowering the chances of new friendships, or hindering the every one welcome, we are all here to help, we are all freinds vibe DGN has now yes haveing some things private or just between friends would be great but isnt that why we have the PM system, or honestly if you are that close of friends and the issue is to private to disscuss on an open board why not just call your freind up, email, im , pm etc....... its a good idea for mass input on a more private level but it just seems to exclusive another idea that might work would be to create a board where you had the opprotunity to decided weather or not to post annoumusly, give us a button that says "hide user info" " make this post annomos" or something like that.... this way if you have a touchy issue you have the choice to get mass input with out feeling personally judged when you see the people out n about or when you make other posts. just a my thoughts Lilith

sorry i hit the wrong button i have nothing to add

its ok didnt you say you had been up for like 30hrs i think we can understand........

I for one dont know a living or dead soul in the placce beside the person/ people who come with me.... that is the main reason why i joined this bored..... now that i joined the bored and i still dont know any one other then the peps i take with me i want to go more just so i can meet some of you in person, even if we never devleope a great freindship it will just be nice to say hi to some one beside the person i drove with. If i never meet any one i will go to CC to dance and zone........ sometimes it is good to be alone

being a newbie i often dont psot causei dont know any one IRL and i am afraid that the lack of knowledge about me and my RL will make some of you judge me injustly...... It took me 3 weeks to decided to post my life story thing, and it terrified me ( it is the first thing i have ever really written in a story type format, not to mention my life stry sounds really crappy)..... but after i posted it, alot of the problems i had internally about the events that happened in my life sort of went away..... in the end with out any one else saying anything, writing it down and getting it out for others to read made me feel better. just like anything else you have to take the good with the bad, dont let fear stop you from being happy, and so far ( for the vast majority) every one here seems to be real tolerant and helpful.

i voted other sorry i did not see hte family obligation choice this morning when i voted ...... it was really early when i voted

http://www.detroitgothic.net/index.php?act...&cmd=si&img=204 ankh on liliths right thigh this is a cover up job of an old smaller tatto that was ruined when she had it recolored http://www.detroitgothic.net/index.php?act...&cmd=si&img=203 this is on liliths left hip area, she gets alot of slack for it but she has her reasons...... http://www.detroitgothic.net/index.php?act...&cmd=si&img=202 THis is on lestats left upper arm it turned out really bad and he hates it when we can afford it it will be fixed by the guy who covered up liliths old tat. http://www.detroitgothic.net/index.php?act...&cmd=si&img=201 this is on Lestats left legg it was done by an old friend of his http://www.detroitgothic.net/index.php?act...&cmd=si&img=200 this is on lestats right legg it was done while he stationed in Cali. Lilith does have another tat on her right ankle which was fucked up, any how she dont have any pics of it and it sucks any how

i about peed when i read this......... I have been i na stall and heard some one say "hello" and i go " um hi" and then i realize as they start talking more that they are on the phone and not talking to me...... omg it is freaking weird when it really happens... i flet like a dumb ass really

I was barely sitting down when I heard a voice from the other stall saying: "Hi, how are you?" I'm not the type to start a conversation in the restroom but I don't know what got into me, so I answered somewhat embarrassed, "Doin' just fine!" And the other person says: "So what are you up to?" What kind of question is that? At that point, I'm thinking this is too bizarre so I say: "Uhhh, I'm like you, just traveling!" At this point I am just trying to get out as fast as I can when I hear another question. "Can I come over?" Ok, this question is just too weird for me but I figured I could just be polite and end the conversation. I say "No........I'm a little busy right now!!!" Then I hear the person say nervously... "Listen, I'll have to call you back. There's an idiot in the other stall who keeps answering all my questions!!!" :doh: :woot: :whistling:

oh what the hell i am not a team playa anyhow :whistling:

a micro burritio and it gave me hick ups

needs to offer "get aways" in said basement

deserves a good honest understanding handsome weatlhy funny faithful man...........

^ is picking me up on her way to said basement

needs a vaction on a sunny beach where 1/2 naked stallions serve things in coconuts with umbrellas, wave palm fans and rub her feet

look ^ i said sumtin funny :woot: :grin: