Hi i know this an old thread...I have addiction experience. NA meetings are free. People need rock bottoms and ultimatums. A lot of ppl are there for weed. You are more important then a bag of weed. It is a hard decision. A lot of ppl had to walk out of my life before i realized i had to stop doing drugs. I almost lostmy job. NA meeting got me clean and I still am and i love it. No pills no weed no alcohol. He can do it! Encourage him!