LadyKay

Okay I see what you mean about control. The control thing came up again when she told me she did not have time to make cookies so she was going to buy store ones. I told her I would make cookies and would buy the stuff I need to make them with. She would not hear of it and is going to buy store ones. After what you said about control I understand the reason why. She is a very controlling person. It is part of her personality. With knowing that I can understand why she does not want someone messing around in HER kitchen with HER stuff. I don't even like people messing with my stuff and I am fairly easy going. So its okay, I wont make cookies. And I will try to reduce my napkin use. But I hate having these stupid issues causing such annoyances. It always seems it is the little things that tear people apart.

I myself am fine with email Christmas greetings. They don't cost anything and they give me as much joy as a card in the mail. Some of them are even funnier. We all have too much "stuff". Well most of us do as I know some people don't have much at all. I do remember a Christmas only a few years ago when all I could get my daughter was a box of candy cans, and coloring book. We did not even have money for a tree. This year is better but still she is not going to be getting what she asked for as it is wayyyyy too much. Okay so I don't know why I am telling you all of this. But this year I am simply greatfull to be living in a place that has heat and food.(and internet) As I have been with out both only last year. So anyway, I see nothing wrong with gathering email addresses and emailing a Christmas greeting! MERRY CHRISTMAS!

Okay, because of some personal issues I am now living with my mother in law. (long story for another time) Anyway, she is always complaining about having to clean the dishes. I myself am perfectly willing to do the dishes and have done them. And every dirty dish I use I load it into the dishwasher or clean it in the sink. Yet she still goes on about having to clean dirty dishes. So instead of using dishes, she wants us to use a paper napkin for our stuff like chips, cookies, and little snacks. Now I personally would rather dirty a dish then have to spend money on paper napkins. But if I am having a snack I better well be using a paper napkin and not a dish or she is not going to be happy. So I use the paper napkin. Well now she is complaining about the paper napkins being used up and she has to buy more to replace them. I am like what do you want from me here. I am trying to abide by what she wants me to do as it is her house. Yet she is never happy. Maybe I should buy my own snack dish and see if that would solve the napkin issue? I don't know why she can't seem to understand that if you tell people to use a napkin the napkins will run out and need replace. The whole thing is just stupid.

Thank you. We had the funeral today. More then 300 people showed up He was a good man who loved God and loved his family. I am bless to have known him.

My father in law died this morning.

I have 6 job applications out and so far I have got nothing. I went to a job fair and so far nothing. I had an interview for a place that only had 1 opening. They hired someone else. I hate it when family start treating you like you are someone who does not want to work when you can't find a job. There are lots of places wanting part time help, but they are 30 miles away. Too far to drive I feel for just part time and only minimum wage. Well thanks for letting me complain.

Yep. This guy just sent me another email offering me an extra $50. If I take down the ad.

Yeah I thought so.

I have an item up for sale on creglist. I got an email reply this morning from a guy who says will pay me with a certifed check for the price pluse 5% more . He just needs my info for the check. (name, and where to mail) and I must do this ASAP! This sounds very fishy to me. Nobody offers to pay more for anything.Offering 5% more sends up my red flag that something is not kosher here.I have not delt alot with this sort of thing but right off I am smelling scame.

My husband is selling his powerful work/gaming computer. It is less then a year old. This thing is fast!!!! See link for more info: Or you can just ask me. http://thumb.craigslist.org/sys/4486402341.html

Still though I hate having the fear of jail hanging over my head for following my consituional right to an attorny. There should be something I can do about this. Some one I can write too. It underminds the justice system if people fear they will be unabe to pay for a court appontef attorny, so they wave their right to get one out of fear.

I went to the court house and paid them $20. I told them I have been out of work and this is all I can do. She said whatever I can pay is fine just as long as regular payments are made I hope that will keep me out of jail. It is still illgal what they are doing. I looked stuff up and it is not legal put someone in jail for not paying a court fee. It is consider a civl matter. I will be lookimg into this more. I really should become a lawyer. I would be very good at it. Wonder of I am too old?

I am going through a family court case. I was appointed a court appointed attorney because I have no income of my own. The case is still on going at this point and no ruiling has been made yet. I am now getting bills in the mail ordering me to pay my court appointed attorney fees. The amount is $3000.00 They now are thearting to arrest me if I do not pay. There is little I can do. My undetstand was that court apointed lawers are for people who can not pay. If I had $3000.00 I would have hired my own lawyer. I can not belive I will be put into jail for being unable to pay for a court appointed attorney. I have no crimal history not even a speeding ticket. But now I may end up in jail for being poor.

Again!

I just made it through 3 days without electric, heat and running water. It was cold, dark and the bathroom smelled really bad. The temp in the house got down to 48 degrees. It was not fun, not at all. So happy when the power came on last night that I cried.

My 8 year old daughter had surgery today to have a cyst removed from her head. Just above her eye brow. She did so well and stop crying right after they gave her pain meds. She loved the little wheel chair.

I know someone who was accused of something they did not do. They can not afford an attorney and told the court that they needed a court appointed attorney because of this. The court appointed them an attorney to represent them. The case as been delayed for months now and has not gone to trial. A few months ago this person got a notice in the mail that it has been order by the court that they have to pay reimbursement to the court for their court appointed attorney. The amount is over a hundred dollars at this point. This person is very upset being as the reason for them to get a court appointed attorney in the first place was because they could not afford an attorney. They are afraid that contempt of court charges will be added to them if they do not pay. I have never heard of such a thing going on and since I am unfamiliar with court stuff I am not much help to this person. They have talked to their attorney about it who simply said that a payment plan can be set up. I had always thought that a court appointed attorney was for those who can not pay. Which is the point of having one and that anyone had the right to have an attorney. It is in the law. Anyway this person feels they have no other choice but to try to make the payments. The court says they have to and they are afraid of what might happen if they do not. I did not know that our court system was set up this way and neath did this person I am talking about. It does not seem right to me. It is like punishing someone just for being poor.

A Michigan couple had their 6 month old baby taken from them. Maria and Gordon Steven Green use medical marijuana to treat Gordon's multiple sclerosis and epilepsy. CPS took their 6 month old way because they said that their they were worried about the possibility of a break in or armed robbery in the house because of the medical medical marijuana being there! By this logic anyone of us who has anything worth taking could have a break in or a robbery. http://www.myfoxmemp...dical-marijuana

What does it really mean when people say "this is more then I can bare." I mean most stuff in life we don't have the choice of not bearing it. If something is really more then a person can bear do they just die? Anyone understand what I am talking about?

I would soooo do this! http://fox8.com/2013...ity/?hpt=us_bn9

It really sucks to find out that one of my high school friends that I have known since 3rd grade died 2 years ago. I just found out about this today. What is really strange is I had a dream about them last night. Then today I got a call from another old class mate who was calling to tell me about our high school reunion. We got to talking and that's when I found out that my high school friend had died 2 years ago.

A 14 year old boy is arrested and could get a year in prison because he wore a pro-NRA t-shirt to school. http://dailycaller.c...a-year-in-jail/ I as a "free" citizen of the United States Of American am very concern at the direction our country is heading. When a 14 year old can be arrested and lable a terroristi just for wearing a t-shirt, I say our freedoms in this country are in serious trouble. I'm not sure what to do but something needs to be done. Cause this is just wrong.

Two life coach radio host who did a show called "Pursuit of Happiness"commit suicide. If someone who has a show called "Pursuit of Happiness"ends up committing suicide is it any wonder why I am depressed most of the time. Then again I am always trying to cheer others up when I myself am feeling like ending it all. http://www.cnn.com/2....html?hpt=hp_t1