What you dont seem to get here is that I'm not entirely disagreeing with you. I think its a sensitive subject with you, and no matter what I say, youre going to argue with me and react negatively. So I'm going to say what I need to say here and that's it.
You're not the only one who has suffered, simply because you may have been the only one in this thread to suffer mental illness personally. Although, you dont really know that. There could be MANY people participating who simply dont want to talk about it. But discounting or dismissing anyone else's suffering simply because it doesnt match your own experience is folly, and almost kind of rude.
People who have watched or cared for loved ones who have been eaten away by illness (dementia or otherwise) have experienced a lot of hardship and pain, too. Yes, its not the same as yours, but it doesnt make their experience any less valid. Nor does it make their knowledge of the experience any less valid. My grandfather had Dementia from Parkinson's, and I did a lot of research, too. Much of Dementia is caused by degenerative nerve conditions and infections. That's why its most commonly seen in Alzheimer's patients, Parkinson's patients, etc.
I am not dismissing your suffering.
You experienced Dementia firsthand, and you were LUCKY enough to come through it. That's a big deal.
However?
That doesnt mean I know nothing. And to dismiss me out of hand is far more high-horse than I'm used to seeing from you. We are both sensitive on the subject, as you expeienced it from the inside, and I did from the outside. Both of us had an experience, and both have researched.
So I'll thank you not to tell me what you think I know.