Burrich1

Torn, it's not you. It's that "guest" guy. Every time I come on here, he is always there and watching me.

Hey LadyKay, That kind of of emotional blackmail is rough to deal with, and is a sign of a very toxic relationship. You really need to set personal limits and avoid being put into this situation. You can do this by expressing support or concern, but you need to put the choice for life or death right back where it belongs, with the person making the manipulative threat. Do not fight with this person, don't give in to their threats or it will just create a pattern of manipulation, and don't accuse them of manipulating you. Giving into threats like this won't solve anything. You will still feel manipulated and angry and they are still at risk of harming themselves. I don't know if this is a relationship with a family member, a friend, or a partner, but regardless, this person isn't not currently well enough to be in any kind of relationship and needs to get better. If they are serious in their threats, they need help beyond what anyone on a bulletin board like this can give for advice. Maybe try calling a crisis line and ask for guidance. Or if you work for a place that offers a few sessions of limited Councling for yourself, like an employee assistant program(and quite a few company's have this) that may help both you and the person your dealing with. I know I'm certainly not a professional and wouldn't want the responsibility of giving poor advice for your circumstance. Its been many many many years since I've been serious on this board. Even back when I posted regularly. I've been in your situation and I also know people who have, so I can completely empathize with you, and felt I should respond to your post. I know your situation sucks. Get some real help. Even if it's just a suicide prevention hotline. And now I think I would like to now go back to lurking and only playing the fluffy games in the introduce yourself section and periodically checking the nightlife for what's happening please. (But seriously, shoot me a message if I can help or you need someone to talk to.)

Is part Elf on her fathers side, but has absolutely zero interest in politics.

Is actually 2 little people, one standing on the other's shoulders, wearing a trench coat.

Is easily fusterated by dolls practicing mind control.

Convinced me to use The Eye of Agamotto to rig the Illinois gubernatorial election, and had a very good reason.

Uses a pizza cutter to cut carbs.

Plans to vote to re-elect Bruce Rauner instead

Developed such a complex goggle anti-theft device that during beta testing it declared itself sentient. It was last seen running for governor of Illinois.

Is not, as one may think, afraid of water, but rather has a deep seated fear of bubbles.

Yeah, this sucks. I hope another venue for tuesday night can be found.

Saturday looks good for Hunhee and myself. It's been a very very long time too. Pesky summer getting in the way nightlife...

Isn't quite sure anyone she knows saw her dancing while blasting "Copacabana" flying down I94 at 7:42 pm on October 4th. (we did. and it was great.)

Dude, I am sorry I couldn't make it out to visit with Hunhee. I hope we get to see you at Kubo or City soon. I am glad your at least feeling better and can do something in the short term to not feel like total crap.

These are the boots I just ordered. I didn't want to drop over 150 bucks so that made these the coolest in my price range (under 80). Just took a little shopping around. I have been goth bootless for almost a year now, so they are long overdue. They are the Demonia Boxer-200's.

Is one of the very few people twisted enough to get the secret messages. (you will obey also!!!)

I feel like tonight is a very good nite for some good music and a couple glasses of gin and ice.

Recently went against all popular opinion and discovered it is better to bite the legs off the chocolate bunnies first, as opposed to the ears, in order to prevent escape.

I shall make up for missing last week this week.

COOL!! Hunhee and I shall see you there!!!

2 thumbs up! Thanks for the mix Saint!