GothicRavenGoddess

*stands up and applauds* I didn't know we had a story time at the Cafe! awesome! so how bout it.. should i get the logo above my uh.. girl parts? like i stated earlier in the "tasteless tattoo" thread? did i mention that I LOVE DGN? hehehehehe.. me thinks i had tooooooooooo much cawphee! i can has s'more?

I just did this, like a few minutes ago... I was inspired by what DBK did to this same picture. Considering I have no idea what the hell I am doing and I am still learning the program (GIMP) Lemme know what you think Edit to add... it would help if i included the image

oh i know, i was only kidding... i was thinking about using my assets to get their attention..... hehehehe why not, it worked on you *runs*

well i don't talk to or get along with the first person.. and... im pretty sure that piggymama is going to get up there in posts.... oh yes... wait, I'll PM u with that question... anyways.. going (me thinks) to a Critical Bill (w00t, free show) on saturday... will def bring my cards, and throw them into the croud... and pick up what's left, off the floor... lmao... anywhoo..... thanks, love. I'll keep up the good work (showing my cleavage while i talk seems to capture even a strait girl's and a gay guy's attention... so.....) anyways... lol

i agree that any more than 4 is way too much (like i said earlier, 3 is more than enough for me, personally and I mean 3 Total... me+ two others....) I think that more than that, and it starts to be about sex, or replacing a partner that can't keep up anymore, but allowing them to stay with... does that make sense? I also agree that its hard work, but any relationship is. you can't just sit back and let things take their course. You also have to have to mindset that "us" means more than just me and you. I think that you have to be born this way. I don't want two men, i want a man and a woman. And both have to be willing to share "us", otherwise its NEVER going to work... even some ppl who only want one other person in their life have yet to grasp this idea.... (the sharing of "you and me" vs "you doing for me, and I give back when I want to") now, I must clarify that I am never with more than one person at a time, UNLESS its okay with the person that I am dating, AND the person outside of my relationship is okay that I am currently dating someone.... Like my most recent ex.... he was okay with the idea that I wanted to have a girlfriend. We both agreed that it was only right for me to have another girlfriend, vs another male friend. it was easier on his mind... PLUS had we stayed together, and him being a straight male, it would have also been easier for him to share me, with another, in bed. Does this make sense? and by all means, ask any questions. I'm not that shy in talking about myself... lol (use to not always be the case, tho)

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Ya know, i think this is the way to go... for me as well.... You don't hear about too many 1-2-3's where the center of the triangle is a woman. Usually its two women in love with one man... not a man and a women in love with a woman. BUT i think that I could deal with this. I told a girl once, that if i could marry her, and (insert ex's name here) at the same time, I would. I would be eternally happy with both of them. But she didn't want to share me with someone, and to this day, part of me still pine for her. The problem is, finding someone who shares your views and is willing to accept that you are in love with two ppl and want to share your love with both of them, equally. Now, I'm not saying that she couldn't share her bed with him. It would be kinda selfish to sit here and say that only I can share myself in this 3 way marriage. That would build resentments, and well, we can't be having that, now can we. I think that if you get the 3 right ppl together, it could be as happy as just 2 ppl... but with the devoice rate, these days, that's going to be a slim to none thing... so no, dear, you aren't sick.... there just isn't that many ppl out there that are like you (us?) that are willing to talk about this, anyways..... Tho there are some ppl that i feel i can share my body with, as in have several different partners and not have to commit to a relationship, i don't think that it would last in the fact that I grow attached to ppl really easily, and i think that it would be harder and harder to watch them leave. But there ARE a few exceptions that I love very much, but it has nothing to do with romance, and even if we are having sex, I feel that falling for them would be crossing the line, and I'd lose them forever if that happend. (I hope that makes sense.) So yeah, i think that about covers it. Its not for everyone, and of course, we all have our views. Those that do agree with the lifestyle still have our differences of opinions on the matter... to lump us all together and say that we feel the same way is like saying that "all generalizations are wrong" Like, i don't think that its right to have more than 4 in a marriage ring. any more than that, and its too much (tho for me, three is more than enough) But just looking at it, one man to however many wives and some are young enough to be his GRANDCHILDREN, is just sick. I don't think that ppl need to be brought up in that type of environment. Im sorry, but if your "children" are almost as old as you are, when you marry a man, that's taking it too far. a 1-2-3+ marriage should be with ppl that are close enough together in age so that they are all mature adults (and i don't mean able to have kids, physically, i mean mental maturity) and can grow as a group, make decisions as a group, and can love and support each other, as a group. not one man controlling several women. I'd kill someone if it came to that. so yeah, that about sums it up, I think. Great Topic, Pandora!

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flesh "color" ones lol

I am utterly astounded at how quickly piggymama took a liking to this site. I was only half kidding when I suggested she join. Go figure! and she has been a posting fiend! lol Too bad her hubby's such a WoW addict... or I'd get him on here, too. (not that there's anything wrong w/ WoW!) *remembers all of Troy's screen shots, and *

going through all the job search sits, hunting for anything that's available.

hellz yeah! "i luv-ed you piggie" what is your favorite Zim show?

well, when i say "flesh color" i really mean none. which reminds me... Flesh color! lol

onions what veggie do you love the most

pink with the word Flirt on the front.. again, basic cotton from Wal-Mart

laugh, quack, live, die, its all the same to me...

i try, but it makes me cry....

silly yous!