GothicRavenGoddess

you can still be overweight, and be in shape.... don't know how, but its true... anyways... i think that for women, an actual goal weight, when losing a significant amount, is better than just saying "i need to lose such-n-such amount of weight" for men, I have noticed, that losing inches, vs. is a better motivator (my mom worked in weightloss for like 8 years, and owned her own clinic.... so yeah.... i know ALOT about this stuff) not claiming to be an expert, not by any means, just observations.... anywho... personally, a goal weight is better..... if i was actually on the track to lose weight... now, in general, its if my arms appear smaller, and my pants fit a little loser, than I am doing something right...

Remember: Rock bottom is good solid ground and a dead end is a good place to turn around... i take comfort that I have friends that love and care about me... when I am down, I write poetry, or a letter to a friend, or give advice.... I am at my best when I am down, and depressed.... I focus better when I am miserable, than when I am happy. Don't get me wrong, I'm not always miserable... or so depressed that I am miserable, but depression fallows me everywhere I go.... I take pleasure in the little things in life. Hearing a baby laugh, makes me giggle... watching funny or amusing videos usually helps, too.. like typing "cute kittens" into YouTube usually does the trick. Surrounding myself with good ppl, or talking to someone about what's bothering me.... Strangely, no matter his mood, hearing my boyfriend's voice, or seeing someone online that hasn't been, for a while and then sending them a message.... I get all giddy inside at the thought of calling my mom.... we are finally getting in a good place, and I like talking to her... Talking about my dad, and my little brothers and sister....and talking about my past pets... I love animals... That's what I do.. *hugs for Troy* You are so AWESOME!

Im just sitting here waisting time drinking (i wish), Smoking (cigs), trying to free my mind (not really) anyways... checking e-mail, wishing that the 'rents would hurry and get home, so i can get some sleep... been on full time baby-sitting duty since Monday, and won't be done till Wednesday (i hope)

dorks!

makes me melt, sometimes, with her kind words, and purdy smile.... *blushes and runs*

never gonna happen boys... lol once a woman has reached maximum sexiness, the only thing one can do is wait for time to take its toll... and even then there is no guarantee that the sexiness will go away. I don't think it will, in her case... *le drool*

OMG! I played a video game w/ her in it... she was my favorite character!!!! WOW!

My god-mom wears them over her boots, ONLY when its really cold outside. she hates the look, herself, knows that she looks ridiculous, BUT, it keeps her legs warm, and she wears them with snow boots, not high heals.

I wasn't taking him away from you.. geeze... i was engaging a group hug... you know, surround his head with our boobies... which, either way, whether we fight over him, or smother him with our boobies, he'll be entertained... lol