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Velcome!!

I agree with this. What I am about to say, however, may piss some people off, but it is in no way a defense of forced sex, pedophilia, or anything of the sort. I was perp'd on myself as a child, and think cutting nuts off would be appropriate in many a situation, but there are some things I don't like about the Sex Offender registry. My main issues are the way people are listed and what the public does with it. On the registry, it doesn't tell the whole story about the situation. A 17 year old male could have oral sex with a 15 year old female that he thought was 17, and be labeled a sex offender for the rest of his life. I'm not excusing the act, but "sex offender" for the rest of his life? What's fair about that? The laws also allow for someone to be put on The List who has been caught urinating in public 3 times, I believe under "indecent exposure." So you get drunk three times, pee behind a gas station, get caught, and are now a sex offender? WTF? If the sex offender list is going to exist, they should put more of the backstory on there so the public has a better idea as to what has happened. And for those that did perp, the way the laws are now, with the restrictions of how many feet they can live by a bus stop, or school, this basically forces all sex offenders to live in and around selected areas. Does this make anyone any safer? The arguments with this could be that the sex offenders could all start buddying around, and encourage each others bad behavior, and start the perp circle all over again. I'm not saying we should make it any easier for anyone who has been convicted, but the true stories need to be considered. I know a common consensus is that the victims of the perps have to live with what happened to them forever, so why shouldn't it be hard? I agree, and I'm not saying make it easier for perps to live, but we need to look at what we are doing. I say this because I'm picturing a perp not being able to find a home, or a job, and basically becoming so desperate that they resort to crime, and perping all over again instead of trying to rehabilitate themselves. Some people are honest about their recovery, and I would personally rather help to rehab, than to be a part of an environment that just encourages them perping again because we think they should be punished. I'm sorry if I offend anyone with my personal stance. Can everyone be rehabilitated? No. I'm all for castrating when it involves a situation like someone raping a child or something like that, but regarding The List, we need to look at situations individually before we pass judgment, or try some vigilante justice.

Happy Birthday!! Hope your B'day weekend has been a blast!

We'll be there, all prettied up and ready to go!

This sounds awesome!! We have the little one that weekend, but if Nightgaunts mom/dad can watch him, then we we will surely be there. Maria, you are a gorgeous and phenomenal woman!

Welcome to DGN!!

OMG! If you guys do it next Saturday, 12/12/09, then Nightgaunt and I will be able to make it. **crosses fingers this is the day!**

Happy Birthday!!

Thanks Bean and Eternal for hosting such a wonderful event! You guys are awesome! We had a fantastic time with everyone! This has been one of the best Thanksgiving holidays I've had. I got to spend Wednesday, and Thursday with both my birth family, and my DGN family. Such fun! The cakes, the pies, the deviled eggs, the rice, the veggies, the mashed potatoes!! Oooooooo, my belly!!! And just when I couldn't eat anymore, Hunhee brings the most wonderfully seductive and full of sin chocolate cake. Giggity-giggity!! You know I found some room after that!! My pants feeling tighter the next day was alllll worth it! On top of the food, we got to see some cheesetastic movies! Thanks StormKnight! I can't believe I never saw Flash Gordon before! That movie was a blast, lol And it brought out one of the best lines I heard from that night which came from Spook.....something like, "He may have just made a touchdown, but I want to see him score." lol I could try to set up the scene, but I would ruin it, so you just have to watch it. Flash is worth it!! Watch it, love it, BEEEEEE IT!! In the basement I was part of the clan that watched Buckaroo Bonzai, which is stuffed full of one liners like "negative mass propulsion," and I do believe the word "oscillator" was used about a thousand times And during the movie, we could all hear the terrified screams of the Blood Freak movie upstairs, which was hilarious! Pomba, if that movie makes Planet 9 look good, I really do need to see it! lol And the cherry on top of the night was The Eternal in his turkey hat There were times when I was sitting on the floor, and all I could see was the hat moving around, lol, like a Tom and Jerry cartoon~rock! We were so happy to see everyone, and had an absolute blast! XOXOXO

Well, it didn't ruin my day, but it sure made me go "gah! WTF? No! No! NOOOOO! Whhhhhyyyyyyyyy!?!?!" Seeing Annie Lennox in a grandma-style sweater vest.......

lol Shhhhhhh! This will make jolly X-mas surprise for Nightgaunt!

I'm so sorry hun. May your little one rest in peace now. Bye Max :(

Let's give a wonderful welcome to Lotus Purgatory!! This woman kicks ass!! XOXOXO

Happy Birthday!!

We'll have our little one that weekend, so I don't think we'll be able to make it, but we hope you have a super fantastic uber awesome birthday!!