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Totally not who I was thinking~hahahaha! I have a friend who would have taken a similar tag if he ever got on here. He'll have to think of something else now, though, ha! Welcome to DGN!

OMG!! Drewcifer!?! I'm going to pee my batpants!! If it's who I think it is, you are teh AWESOME Drewcifer!!

LOL!! Black Jack pointed out to us last Saturday that he does not believe any couple who met on DGN actually has had a child together. This is something I have never thought about before, but in the wee couple of years I have been on, I can't think of anyone either. I think we were given a **hint, hint**, **wink, wink**, and **nudge** by this conversation, as well No baby bats in this bat cave yet, though, lol. So have there been any couples who have met and gotten together primarily through DGN that have given birth to little ones? Now I'm curious!!

You have a different perspective than I do because you're in the service. You see a lot more behind the scenes action than I ever would, and have you're own perspective of it. I'm always suspicious of why we go to war with other countries, or why we get into partnerships/agreements because we're lied to at every corner by politicians. I still feel that its more about the gain. We're not beyond the "war" mentality right now, so I'm not opposed to it when its aimed at bastards holding down the innocents. It doesn't really solve anything, though, does it? It may stop something from happening, but its not a solution. With the state of humankind right now, war is going to happen no matter what. When I see a potential for things to be resolved without war, of course I would like to see it tried, but there's always going to be some bastard that doesn't want to let go of power, or be fair. And as far as Africa goes, it isn't just one thing. It's a whole boatload of things that we have the potential and capacity to solve, and work out, but its not going to happen. Ever. Not at this stage of the game. We're just not there yet, and there are so many people in their same situation, how would we take care of it all?

Deeeeeeny! lol

Okay, it was just a loong time ago then, lol. You're not old!! I told you how old I was at CC, and if you repeat I will deny it!

But did you come from Maine on a train? Welcome back theremper!!

Ha! Its you! Awesome! You joined a looooooooong time ago Welcome back! Glad you're giving it another try

Happy Birthday Junefun28!!! Sorry~ I ates da cake!! Mmmmmmmm! And since I don't have any extra boobies in my face, I'm motorboating two jello shots in your honor right now! XD Have a wonderful day!

Hey! It's you! I'm a little late, but welcome to the board!

Eevee!! Yay! You're ok! After I heard about you in the bathroom, I went in and didn't see you, and then didn't see you for the rest of the night. So glad you're awake and alert enough to type in the afternoon! We had a fantastic night with everyone, and stayed way later than we usually do. I danced a lot, and my throat is sore from talking, and laughing so much. The dance floor got a little douchie at the end of the night with the jock straps, but thank goodness there wasn't enough of them to spoil the dancing fun. By the end of the night, though, my ass was so tired, and sore, I pictured myself moving around like Fred Sanford out on the floor~ha! Hope to see everyone again soon! Muwah!

Hello and Welcome to DGN!

Greetings and welcome to DGN!!

Ha!

I'm on board with everyone here. I know it may not be the advice you wanted, but we've all been slapped with some crazy shit, and we care, so we want you to be safe. We don't need you to end up as any portion of The Human Centipede O.o I have a couple of more thoughts. You have not actually met him in person yet, right? Big Red Flag if someone is talking about marriage when they haven't even actually met you yet. I understand being smitten with someone online, and skyping, and all that, but to bring up the M word before meeting you is crazy. If he won the lottery, and will get his money soon, why doesn't he come over here to visit you? If he has money, you guys could rent a place for a bit, and he could be on your turf. If it doesn't work out, then he leaves. You're in a more vulnerable situation when its the other way around. I'm not judging, but it sounds like you're more interested in the idea of living there, than actually being in a relationship with this particular person long-term. Maybe the secondary gain of getting to live in a place you want to be is really the primary reason for going? Would you be considering this offer if he lived in Utah, the Sahara, Turkey, or Peru? Just be completely honest with yourself, and be honest with him about where you are at mentally, and emotionally with all of this. If you do go over there, ask him to get you a place of your own so you can have some space, at least for a little bit. I don't know how long you planned on going, but it sounded like more than just a week. These are all just thoughts, and not meant to be offensive. We appreciate you asking us for advice, and we wouldn't give it if we didn't give a crap. If you go, and get into a Centipede situation, just make sure you're the front ;P

**crosses fingers!** :D Thank you Havoc! Nightgaunt and I are really excited about being able to go. We haven't actually met many new DGN'ers, and its sounds like there will at least be a few there, along with some awesome people we haven't seen in a while. Weeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!

That awkward moment when you've just spilled your mushy crush filled guts to someone and they just look at you, smile, and continue what they're doing. O.o

We have PLENTY of resources in the world for no one to go hungry, or have basic needs unmet. We may not be entirely selfish as a group, but the few of us who are fueled by power, money, and greed seem to always get the greatest hold on everything. We seem to be able to insert ourselves into other countries, even if it means war, if we want something from them, but we can't go in guns blazing when people are being slaughtered, starved, and tortured. That has always disgusted, and pissed me off. It makes me ashamed, too, of where we are at as a species. I'm not going to lie, I'm part of that problem because I'd still kill a bitch in certain situations whereas Nightgaunt would look at the big picture, and try to transcend the moment. Even with that, I could never take total control of anything, or take part in directly wiping out or torturing an entire population.

I love this advice! Muwah! Awesome offer Havoc Lacilliyr, this would be a good start, seriously. At CC, you can people watch, and don't have to talk to anyone at all if you don't want to. You can just blend right in.

Things you have in common with all of us: 1. You're on DGN 2. You feel weird. 3. You have an alternative side. 4. You're human. 5. You're breathing. 6. You like hugs. Yes, we all like hugs, even though we kid about it. For some of us, hugs come in the form of catching ones gaze for a moment. The touching comes later. 7. You socialize on here with the rest of us, so you are one of us. Unless you're some 80 year old guy who's got a closet full of diapers, and has NAMBLA on speed dial, you're pretty much "in" in my book ;P See you there!!

We're definitely out of shape, but we'll do our best! lol We'll make sure we have the comfy shoes on, too!

Nightgaunt, Littlegaunt, and myself would like to come with you guys to walk, if that's cool As long as I don't have to work that day, we should be able to make it. It's been just over 3 years since I lost my JenJen, and it still hurts like a bitch. I think the money raised for this can do a world of great things. I don't like fundraising for all causes because sometimes its just like throwing money into a black hole. By the time funds get portioned out to all the hands in the pot, I imagine about .5 cents of every dollar directly helps the people suffering. Total suck! For this, though, I see it as funds for counseling, outreach groups, help lines, and programs which deal with people 1:1. We're in! If anyone else in the Hazel Park area would like to attend this, we have two spots in the car after us, so you can come with! Thanks TM!!