I'm talking from PERSONAL experience too...
..& yeah, 'go eat a sandwich' ain't that bad to hear...but, how about 'put down the crack pipe'...for a youth..that ain't to fuckin' cool to have to deal with...you dig it?
ZEN, tells us not to compare our pains to other's pains...for they can not be counted as fingers...but, to just deal with the obstical that is OURS at hand....in short, 'get over it'...so, you see, you're calling me cruel, when, I am just trying to help & encourage you...not 'get over being fat'..."GET OVER BEING CALLED NAMES!"...it happens to G*DDAMNED EVERYONE!
It is the PAIN that is weighing you down..the pain, turns sour & we call it depression...that, makes you go through your cycle...I don't have to tell you this...you know you...now, beat yourself in a battle...that's all you have to do...have more will, than weakness.
THAT...& that alone...WINNING, against yourself...can make you happy.
Mercy, is often cruel..
..they shoot a horse with a broken leg...
...they chop off legs to save lifes...
....I tell the truth..for no reason, other than to say it..
..the mercy is in my heart...the cruelty is in your mind.