Hmm. Yes, well, I am decidedly not goth and, yet, I am here nonetheless, and gosh darn it, sometimes on some days, people here actually like me. Despite my grandmotherly wardrobe, my un-gothic taste in music, my grammar nazism, my errors in fact, my grotesquely punny sense of humor, my general flakiness, people on this board like me.
I attribute this to our common experience, that most of us were outsiders for much of our lives in this society, partly because of individual peculiarities, but also because of our hesitance to completely embrace mainstream norms and values, so we have great empathy for, and desire the company of, like-minded people.
You don't think you belong anywhere? Welcome to the club, friend. Not only are you one of us, we need you.