xenoterracide

You say 'the pope' like he's supposed to be some counter example to bad... A guy who's child molester policy is "don't ask, don't tell".

I'm sorry I can't respect her. I tried, she's lost my respect. I won't discuss details (because I don't really know much and it'd all be heresay to me anyways) but I'm pretty sure she's guilty of enough crimes to go to prison if anyone knew, or was pressing charges. leeching from me is not the worst she's done, and I can't respect that. Getting pregnant and having a child does not automagically make you worthy of respect. My father didn't raise me, and he went to prison, for many things including check fraud, and lost my respect. My mother beat my sister enough to have a warrant out for her arrest. She lost my respect. I don't care who or what you are... respect requires merit, and if you don't merit it, you shouldn't get it. If you care more about your addictions than the happiness of your children... that's not respectable. I'll respect her rules and I've thus considered that the next time I go will possibly, probably, be the last time. Because I won't/can't pay.

I also agree that the funds are not going to be put to good use... as far as "maybe she'll give them to you when you move out" highly doubtful and it's kinda asinine to ask ME for money for her daughter, and use that as a reason.

She doesn't charge you rent but you do provide food for the household with your bridgecard. She's a leech... she'll leech off anyone and anything she can. As I've said asking for gas money to pick up your sister's bf isn't out of the question... That's an acceptable expense. Since the food is off Gothika's bridgecard I don't affect that bill at all... so no board is being provided by her mother. Technically the bed Gothika sleeps on is also mine. I don't actually incur her any expense other than being there. It costs me $35 just to get there, plus $20? I can't afford it. I have no job I live on student loans. It's not every weekend it was for a little while because I was attending school in the area. But I'm not now, so Gothika is the only reason I have to be there. consider this exceptionally rude behavior, especially considering I was taking care of Gothika for several months until I lost my place and had to move in with my parents.

Well part of Gothika's problem is she gave her wallet to me to hold on to. I was already drunk walking in the door... I know when my pockets get light of my things... but I put it in my inside coat pocket which has no zipper. later I got warm and put the coat around my waste... at some point it 'fell' out. maybe when I went over the couch. I take responsibility for losing the wallet, but I do wish I hadn't have been asked to carry it after we were already in City, otherwise we could have left it in the van... or someone sober might have had the foresight to put it in my side pockets, which I forgot had zippers (it's a new coat similar to my old one which didn't have zippers).

Thanks for all the Happy bday's. sorry I haven't been on in a while.

a 4 digit pin is really insecure. any system that uses them is. I hate that my debit card still has them. Literally my desktop can crack a 4 digit pin in under 1 minute if the system is improperly designed (most are). but it requires direct access to the system (e.g. any website that allows it for the password). However, it's not entirely improbable to guess a person's pin based on personal information.

checking email then going to bed w/ my girl

*removes self from single list*