I was never a selfish person to begin with. So having my son (which I always wanted) didn't change a thing for me on that end. Ive always been one to cater to other people, and it's what I like to do.
I take no offense. Thank you. I know a lot of families that are choosing to go child free. And Im all for them. Everyone has their choice. And that is the norm for families now a days.
Having kids for selfish reasons, now that is another story entirely.