I have a 3 1/2 year old who doesn't listen to me at all!!! It is so frustrating, even spankings don't work on him (and I give 'em good). His dad doesn't have any better luck with him. Sometimes making him stand in the corner or sit in time out will work but only briefly. We are happily married and financially secure so there's no home life issues. I have two older children from my first marriage, a 12 yo daughter and 6 yo son who I never had this problem with. I refuse to give up on disciplining him even though he's been like this since the day he was born.....I know, how do you know you have a bad infant right?? Because he never let me put him down, would scream for hours until he got his own way. He's very smart and determined to get what he wants, I think he's going to make an excellent adult when he's allowed to make his own decisions all the time. I have no suggestions as to what to do about it but at least you know there are other kids that are the same way.