Some of the few people close to me on rare occasion ask me if I'm talking to anyone, and of course not in that capacity, and most people my age are or have been in relationships. But the way I've come to view the world is that romance equals pain. And compared to real Tantra and Nirvikalpa, its just a lesser form of love. I think its best at this point to choose to be alone, and try to evolve into an asexual.