look on the bright side hun (and I know I'm on the outside looking in, so if I'm overstepping my bounds I appologize in advance), she's the one attacking, you're the one being the mature adult. She just does it because she's so unhappy and insecure with herself that the only way to make herself feel important is to bring you down. You're better than both of them, so just try and ignore it (yes, I know its hard to ignore your baby's daddy, but still). You don't need their drama and you're a better person now that you're not with him. So, in short, they can both kiss your ass!