jcheeka

listening to my cat snore yes he snores and louder then most humans

making my daughter laugh so hard that she almost spit her drink out on the guy in front of us

Doing much better today. Just kinda woke up with the attitude that I was done being crushed. Still sad and I miss him and would take him back if he wanted but it would be on my terms this time. He says he needs time, for what you left remember Im the one who is supposed to need time lol. Oh well what can you do. Guess he is finding it hard to figure out what he wants. Oh well not going to wait around to see what he decides going to get a job and place to live and enjoy being single for the first time in a long time. If it works out that he ends up with me great if not enjoy a life of irratation. I really do hope the two of them are happy if this is what they want there are two kids involved so all this back and forth is not good for them. Hell I even told him I would be friends with both of them just so she wont throw a fit if he talks to me. I swore I wouldnt do anything to break them up and I meant it. Thank you all so much for all the advice I so need to meet you guys at the club. Guess im going to be solo for a while so I want to be able to meet up with people there dont want to be by myself all night lol.

my exboyfriend saying we will be friend that he just needs some time. Time for what he left and went back to his ex what does he need time for lol. Not my fault he is in love with both of us and cant figure out if he made the right choice. Just made me laugh so hard

being right about my now exboyfriend and his girlfriend

well today is a new day. Got an email from him yesterday and although I am still hurt and crushed I kinda understand. He is in love with both of us but wants to try with her again. Cant really blame him she is the mother of his kid and things are kinda complicated on my end right now. She has spent so long telling him he is worthless that he doesnt think he deserves to be happy with me. Told him that I think he is stupid to go back to her but I do hope things work out with them. I dont see it happening in the 4 years they were together he said he has had more unhappy then happy times. I figure its only a matter of time till she does it again. If someone hasnt changed in four years they never will. We started off as friends so that is what we are going to try again he always said I was his best friend and I feel the same way. Yesterday when I found out all that stuff about my sister he was the first person I thought of to talk about it with. I realized that I almost as sad about losing a friend as a boyfriend. I told him I would be there for him as a friend and would pick him up when she rips him apart again. I will probably knock him upside his head and make him promise he is done with her but I would pick him up after I hit him. Who knows if we were meant to be then things will work out if not at least I will still have a great friend. Who knows it might be fun to be friends with him and make her worry a bit about me. i will never do anything to ruin what the have. Told him if nothing else if they break up we could be fuck buddies lol he is so good in bed.

Thank you all for the great advice. I never meant to fall for the guy I figured he had feelings for his ex but what can you do. Got an email from him today saying he is sorry and its hard to love two women at the same time. He doesnt think he deserves me which is so stupid he is a great guy if he would only realize it. I guess he likes a women who cheats on him is mean to him very jealous and calls him worthless all the time. Its kinda funny I told one of his friends that he went back to her and just asked if he could help me with some computer stuff he said yes then went off on a nut about how stupid this guy is. It wasnt my intention to make his friends mad at him but it made me laugh. All his friend hate his ex. His own mom is not to crazy about his ex but she loved me lol. As for my friend she has lying issues all the time but this was the last straw. We had a party to go to and she was mad that I left a little early to go see my guy. So she took it upon herself to tell my soon to be ex husband about it along with a bunch of other shit that he wouldnt know unless she told him. So at this point I dont see us being friends. My life has been so crazy since oct met this guy just talked till my husband I seperated then fell for him like a dumb ass. He wasnt the reason my marriage fell apart he was just the reason the divorce got sped up. As hurt as I still am I have decided to start my life over try to get ahold of some people and start to have a life again. If anybody knows any place that is hiring let me know. My goal is to get a job and go to school so I can afford a place for my daughter and me.

thank you

I am interested

In the span of less then 24 hours my whole world has fallen apart. I had been with this guy we were planning on getting a place together and starting a life together. He has an ex who is the mother of his daughter. In the last two weeks he has been spending a lot of time at her place to see the kids (his and her other one by another guy) I didnt say to much because its his kids. The only part that upset me was that he would stay after the kids went to bed. So in the last two weeeks I kinda suspected something but he kept telling me that he loved me that I was the love he had been looking for his whole life and that he would never leave me to go back to her. She was always so mean to him very jealous controling and liked to make fun of him. Call me crazy thats not what you do to someone you love. So two days ago we got in a big fight about everything. We both kinda calmed down and he asked if we could talk more yesterday. All morning he told me that he loved me wanted to be with me couldnt wait for us to go out saturday and couldnt wait for our life together to start. We went back to his house so I could see his daughter. We played for a while and he was really quiet. Got ready to leave and this is the part that made me so mad I told his daughter goodbye that I would see her soon and that she could met my daughter really soon. He let me say all that waited for me to drive home and he calls me and tells me that he still has feelings for his ex and he is sorry. He doesnt know what else to say. Now this morning I just found out that my best friend who is like a sister to me told my soon to be ex husband a bunch of stuff about me and my boyfriend and some other stuff. So now I no longer have a boyfriend or a best friend. Anyone got any ideas on how to make the pain go away. the funny things is I am not really into girls but if my exboyfriend asked if I would be willing to be in a realtionship with him and his girlfriend (she is bi) I would just so I could be with him. That is so sad I know

I really am going to try to be there this weekend. Hopefully all goes well so I can it sucked so bad that I couldnt make it last week. Well all is not going well so I dont know if I will be there or not. My boyfriend just broke up with me and went back to his ex

my boyfriend texting me that he is watching a movie with his ex so basicly dont text me. He is there to see the kids but why the hell cant I text him when he is watching a movie so sorry dont mean to interupt

Hope everyone had a great time. My boyfriend was sick so we were unable to make it. Maybe next week

hello

I really hope I have the money to go. I really need a night out

thanks for all the advice

How do I tell my 12 year old that I am dating someone. Her dad and I just told her today that we are getting divorced. The marriage hasnt worked for a while we are better as friends. We seperated in oct but still live in the same house. I met the new guy in aug but we didnt start getting serious until i seperated from my husband. I plan on moving in with this guy sometime but I want my 12 year to get to know him first. Any advice on how to go about telling her?

I really want to go this year

To get my life together. To actually be able to afford to go back to school. To find a really good job to support my daughter all on my own.

besides meeting my man 2009 sucked so bad

Thanks to all for the welcome back. I will post when I am coming out to play. Where at city do you guys usual meet? Cant wait to meet up with you guys.

I have been on this board for a while but never really met any of you at the club. Things have been crazy in my life for a while wont bore you with details. Now I am with somebody new and I really want to met all of you. Where do I start? Anyone got any suggestions?

will be there celebrating my bday. Hope to bring lots of people with me buy you know how that goes lol

I will be there tonight. I am bringing a newbie it will be my boyfriends first time there.