This is why the whole fishnets/dreadfalls/goggles circle has been become very trite, dancing in willful and blissful ignorance while new amazing stuff passes them by. And the deathrock set have been just as guilty. At least break away into a cosplaying scene if music isn't your thing.
Otherwise, ditch the fashion show, pinup posturing, and scene habits - it's all about mood and sounds now, kids.
And what moods and sounds they are!