Really feeling like an anomaly here as I'm not looking nor is the interest there, on my part, in ever hooking up again. I'm just not starving for affection, y'know? Just not feeling it.
Something I'd noticed on here is that several folks seem to dive headfirst into things just for the sake of being with someone only for things to turn sour and end up in regrets. Is being single really that unbearable for folks? It just seems that people are too eager to give up personal space and peace of mind for short-term conveniences. One could come across as needy and clingy feeling that way.
Indulge and marvel in the things that make you you, laugh,stick your, poke, pick, and prod at the absurdities of life, dance about when it suits you, lift those rocks, see what's behind those doors, enjoy spontaneity...
And if, throughout all this, you end up eye to eye/nose to nose with someone evokes those lost childhood feelings, forgotten dreams, those things you always wished were real, and values you still hold dear and they also happen to feel just as much then have a go at it.
Finding "that someone" should never be a top priority.