step one: from now on, in writing, out loud, and in your head, make one change... replace the word "hate" with the word "dislike".
step two: figure out why you dislike these things - is it strictly internal, or is it due to outside opinions/judgments? if external? fuck 'em!
step three: accept/embrace your uniqueness. remove from your life those who don't, and find new people who do/will.