torn asunder
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torn asunder reacted to Nienna in Who Here Is Single
By being a cold hearted bi*ch? LOL No really... I'm so incredibly damaged at this point that I have walls so thick that no one gets through unless I open the door, and it's completely intentional. I wish I didn't have to be this way, but like I said, I had love, real love. He would have eventually destroyed me though so I ended things. I have yet to find anyone else that made me feel that way. I refuse to settle, so I have what I have. It's fine for now. I'm not really fufilled, but I'm too old to be depending on a significant other to do that for me anyway. Maybe sometimes I'll find another person who makes me sing, but I'm not holding my breath. Sorry to be so blunt. It's just the way it is with me now.
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torn asunder reacted to Nienna in Aging
I'm almst 33. I also still pass for mid 20s usually and get carded often w=for cigs and booze. It's fine with me. I still feel great and want to go out alot. That said, my BF right now is only 5 years older and claims he has little interest in going out because he has gotten too old and "age is catching up to him". That's sad to me and I think it's just mind over matter really. He's decided he's old, so he is. I refusae to be, so I'm not. Besides, I have friends ranging from their teens up to their 80s right now and I relate to them all on a personal level that transcends age. Whay can't I relate to a scene in the same way?
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torn asunder reacted to n0Mad in Who Here Is Single
What if you jump too early and the train runs you over?
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torn asunder reacted to Class-Punk in What Are You Thinking?
I'm going to end up deleting my FB this year, I really should have done it a long time ago. I'm staying away from social networking sites and sticking to forums as far as the internets goes.
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torn asunder reacted to Destroit in Welcome Tyger - New Moderator Emissary
We'll be Gothsfromoverthepond,eh.net before we know it .
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torn asunder got a reaction from phee in What Are You Thinking?
i'm thinking -
"i'm still here, el guapo!" (or in this case, la bella!?)
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torn asunder reacted to phee in DGN MANFAST Registration Thread
Just take a nap while you are driving... make sure that the road is straight and that you are going straight so there won't be any problems....
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torn asunder got a reaction from Enishi in How Are You Feeling?
great advice sometimes comes from the most unusual sources. this was in a mike tyson interview, and really struck a chord with me...
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torn asunder got a reaction from KatRN05 in Who Here Is Single
WRECKLESS ERIC - Whole Wide World Lyrics
When I was a young boy
My mama said to me
There's only one girl in the world for you
And she probably lives in Tahiti
I'd go the whole wide world
I'd go the whole wide world
Just to find her
Or maybe she's in the Bahamas
Where the Carribean sea is blue
Weeping in a tropical moonlit night
Because nobody's told her 'bout you
I'd go the whole wide world
I'd go the whole wide world
Just to find her
I'd go the whole wide world
I'd go the whole wide world
Find out where they hide her
Why am I hanging around in the rain out here
Trying to pick up a girl
Why are my eyes filling up with these lonely tears
When there're girls all over the world
Is she lying on a tropical beach somewhere
Underneath the tropical sun
Pining away in a heatwave there
Hoping that I won't be long
I should be lying on that sun-soaked beach with her
Caressing her warm brown skin
And then in a year or maybe not quite
We'll be sharing the same next of kin
I'd go the whole wide world
I'd go the whole wide world
Just to find her
I'd go the whole wide world
I'd go the whole wide world
Find out where they hide her
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torn asunder got a reaction from bean in What Are You Thinking?
i'm thinking that this isn't really the case - it's not love and passion, but the unreasonable *expectation* that the "desire" will never change, that brings about heartache.
expectation of a particular outcome/result is the ultimate cause of our suffering, imo. when one goes into something with no firm expectations, one is rarely disappointed. accepting that things are ever-changing, and learning to come to terms with that will always make life easier to live. taking things as they come, being thankful for the things in one's life while they're here, and accepting when it's time for things to change is the key, to me. life is impermanence...
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torn asunder got a reaction from phee in What Are You Thinking?
i'm thinking that this isn't really the case - it's not love and passion, but the unreasonable *expectation* that the "desire" will never change, that brings about heartache.
expectation of a particular outcome/result is the ultimate cause of our suffering, imo. when one goes into something with no firm expectations, one is rarely disappointed. accepting that things are ever-changing, and learning to come to terms with that will always make life easier to live. taking things as they come, being thankful for the things in one's life while they're here, and accepting when it's time for things to change is the key, to me. life is impermanence...
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torn asunder got a reaction from Rev.Reverence in Who Here Is Single
totally don't understand, but... ok??