How do you make someone realize they're an addict when they don't believe you? Is that just a normal part of addiction, not believing there's a problem? My husband spends $120 on weed every month (usually more) and our only income right now is unemployment and SSD. When he doesn't smoke he turns into a monster. Snapping at everyone, breaking things, getting frustrated with the kids, yelling at me over nothing, etc. I know he's out before he even tells me just by the way he's acting. If I let him he'd spend more on it. I don't mind him smoking, but we just can't afford it right now. And he refuses to admit he has a problem with it. I've always heard weed is not physically addictive, but it sure is mentally addictive in this case. How do I convince him of that?