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Yes, around 5 am this morning my grandma died. My mom called me earlier and told me the bad news. So now shes going to come by 10 pm tonight to pick me up and then pick up my sister from the airport so that we can go to ohio for the funeral tomorrow, im going to be gone for the whole week and maybe slightly be able to go on here during the mean time (depends if I can get my hands on the internet or not).

So yeah right now I feel very upset and sad of the loss of my good ma'mal. Atleast she was able to live up her life and didnt die a horrible death. It was just her time to go, sad to say but theres nuthing anyone can do or say. She was very good to me and my sister when we were kids everytime we visited. I havnt saw my sister for couple of years ever since she signed for the airforce, right now I feel nervous yet very depressed. Usually when somone die's it doesnt bother me this much because of the fact I got use to people dying on me, but now my grandma passed away it just struck me really bad.

Looks like im going to need some serious alcohol this week.

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I am so very sorry to hear that Ram. I know how it is to lose ppl that are not really close but still meant alot to you and had a wonderful impact on your life, which it sounds like your grandmother did. Just know she is in a better place now, its hard to say goodbye, but we must, to have any final peace with ppl. I wish you well on your trip, be safe, and I hope you come back with a sense of peace my friend.

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Yes, around 5 am this morning my grandma died. My mom called me earlier and told me the bad news. So now shes going to come by 10 pm tonight to pick me up and then pick up my sister from the airport so that we can go to ohio for the funeral tomorrow, im going to be gone for the whole week and maybe slightly be able to go on here during the mean time (depends if I can get my hands on the internet or not).

So yeah right now I feel very upset and sad of the loss of my good ma'mal. Atleast she was able to live up her life and didnt die a horrible death. It was just her time to go, sad to say but theres nuthing anyone can do or say. She was very good to me and my sister when we were kids everytime we visited. I havnt saw my sister for couple of years ever since she signed for the airforce, right now I feel nervous yet very depressed. Usually when somone die's it doesnt bother me this much because of the fact I got use to people dying on me, but now my grandma passed away it just struck me really bad.

Looks like im going to need some serious alcohol this week.

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I hope you don't indulge yourself in alcohol. What helps me, is I look back into all the best time and memories that I had with that person.

I know everyone has probably told you something like that, but we are all looking out for ya. You know your loved here and you have anyone to go to if you need a shoulder.

Take care.

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Hang in there stud. Try not to get too drunk, I know it made me feel worse when my grandmother died. Instead, hang out with your family and try to make the best of the whole situation. Try to spend time with others and not by yourself. She's in a better place now bro. My heart is with ya.

-B

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Thanx everyone!! Wow, I never thought I get this much support. Of course you guys didnt have to but thanx and I do appreciate y'all expressing your concerns! :happy:

The funerals over with now but im still down in ohio, I should be hading back to MI tomorrow afternoon and arriving probaly really late. I finally got access to the internet now (finally) to check and clear all my messages n stuff.

When I first got to ohio one thing I didnt expect is to be one of the pole bearers, which means I was requested to carry my grandma down the isle and into the hearse. Tears were being shed left n right and for me it was really hard to be in front of all those people. I dont like to break down in front of others, I just held it in the hold time. Except when I was in front of my grandma while the casket was still open having some last words with her. It was really hard but once after it was all over with we were in the back of the church where there was alot of food, we talked, shared memories and started having some good laughs. From then on everyone started cheering up. Of course yeah I got drunk, but I didnt get drunk alone though and we just drank beer. It was me my cousin and his gf. It was odd to see me cousin these days all grown up, along my other younger cousins as well.

Once I get back I defintely plan on going to cc this weekend, I feel that its time to venture outside my family and spend time with my friends. I hope to see some of you this weekend, y'all know who ya are!

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Sorry to hear what happened dude. But glad to hear that you had a good time while being down there. That is what people should do is celebrate the life they had rather than dwell on the end. And you are right, she died peacefully without any horrible death.

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