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For me, I guess....lying.

And not wanting to use condoms. :cool

Maybe, um if your really dirty and steal too.......

Or are a drunk or druggie.

:erm :fear

Ok, well if your a general all around ass hole that would do it too.

But, condoms. If you won't use one......its over. Period. :tear

I don't understand people who won't use them or think its ok to not use them once in awhile. :ohmy:

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Cheat on me and I will NEVER speak to you kindly again. If you are a druggy I never would have gotten invloved with you in the first place, same with drinking. Lying...it depends on what you lie about but yea, that to.

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I noticed more and more men are lying about their age. Once you lie about something so rudamentary......how can anyone trust you about something else?

And......why is it more exceptable for a woman to lie about her age than a man, almost like if your over 30 its expected.....

Its not like your partner won't find out eventually....

I know a few freinds online who are lying about their age (males) and it's kinda funny....just that they are so vain about it.....

I actually had a friend tell me to keep my profile a few years younger so he could get away with lying too as we are friends and the same age....and he looks young for his age anyway.

to try to meet someone online and start out with lies is just dumb. The truth will come out.

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I noticed more and more men are lying about their age.  Once you lie about something so rudamentary......how can anyone trust you about something else?

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that's just stupid, please. Yes, I am almost 40 and yes, that IS my belly hanging over my pants and yes, that IS a thin spot on top of my head, and NO, that is not my porsche......

Moving on...

for me, a relationship dealbreaker is any form of betrayal. But I will add this much: Laura and I have both had to forgive each other for lies and for involvement with "others" ........ this was a long time ago, when both of us were a mess. If you can come back from that you can come back from anything. I will say however, that in this stage of our relationship - those things would be the end of us. We've come too far to step backwards so dangerously.

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I'll put up with quite a bit, even to the point of the rather rare second chance if I think the guy is actually worth the effort. But, breaking the arrangement is the easiest way to end it. I'm currently only friends with one person I've ever slept with and even that friendship is more like an aquaintance. I like to set up boundries early on to find out where things lie.

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Lying, Cheating, Drug-Addict, User, Doesnt like the true me, Doesnt want a relationship thats 50/50, Doesnt trust me, purposefully makes me frustrated, stalks me at work, pretends to be different people online, Doesnt have a job or isnt trying to get a job, Doesnt respect me, Makes me pay for everything, and the list goes on.....................

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my list is long

- no smokers

- no bi-sexuals - no offense to anyone here, I just prefer straight girls

- no girls under 5'2" tall

- no girls who've slept around

- no girls who've slept with any of my close friends

- no one more than 5 years older or younger than me

- no drug users, even if it's just casual

- no satan worshippers, including people who think Lavey is cool (he was making a joke, you people know that, right?)

- No strippers or girls who perform in fetish shows

- no prositutes

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