Relationship deal breakers.

[ZhukovCodeslinger]

no girls who hate loud noises and corodite.

[Scary Guy]

I think I resemble those remarks.

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as do I

[TheLordShaper]

lying cheating stealing all the ususal but my biggest one is if I have to

RAISE THEM. I dated a girl that I was basically daddy cleaning up after her, taking care of her etc and she still hardly put out. I really feel a relationshipo needs to be dead even 50/50 and i need that emotional support as much as she does. I might even be able to let all the other bullshit go but if you make me take care of you...game over

TLS

[BrassFusion]

HEY!!!!!!!  :tear

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Eh, lose 20 pounds and I'll let you go down on me.

[Marblez]

Along with lying, stealing, cheating... A few that I need to keep reminding myself of, no matter how lonely I get:

No "bottoms".

No fast food junkies.

No drug users (excluding very very limited marijuana).

No one at, near or shortly after bankruptcy.

No one with more than 3-4 months unemployment in the last 12.

No one with high unpaid debt including credit card or child support.

No one on the sex offenders list.

No one with multiple unrelated felonies.

No one with less than 30 years left to their life expectancy.

and the new killer:

No one less than 180 days out of their last life-changing relationship.

THink I am being too picky? Add to that the fact that he has to be willing to date ME!! uh yeah.

(sings) "On my own pretending he's beside me...."

[Head Wreck]

i recon that can be done.

someone who doesnt understand he way my brain comes to its conclusions, pineapples and fibreglass penguins included

[Steven]

Along with lying, stealing, cheating... A few that I need to keep reminding myself of, no matter how lonely I get:

No "bottoms".

No fast food junkies.

No drug users (excluding very very limited marijuana).

No one at, near or shortly after bankruptcy.

No one with more than 3-4 months unemployment in the last 12.

No one with high unpaid debt including credit card or child support.

No one on the sex offenders list.

No one with multiple unrelated felonies.

No one with less than 30 years left to their life expectancy.

and the new killer:

No one less than 180 days out of their last life-changing relationship.

THink I am being too picky?  Add to that the fact that he has to be willing to date ME!! uh yeah. 

(sings) "On my own pretending he's beside me...."

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good list. makes sense. just for fun, please explain the "no bottoms" (laughing) stipulation......

[Hellion]

Along with lying, stealing, cheating... A few that I need to keep reminding myself of, no matter how lonely I get:

No "bottoms".

No fast food junkies.

No drug users (excluding very very limited marijuana).

No one at, near or shortly after bankruptcy.

No one with more than 3-4 months unemployment in the last 12.

No one with high unpaid debt including credit card or child support.

No one on the sex offenders list.

No one with multiple unrelated felonies.

No one with less than 30 years left to their life expectancy.

and the new killer:

No one less than 180 days out of their last life-changing relationship.

THink I am being too picky?  Add to that the fact that he has to be willing to date ME!! uh yeah. 

(sings) "On my own pretending he's beside me...."

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I agree on everything but the employment thing,due too so many people losing their jobs in America,its not their fault they got laid off,as long as they are trying to find work while on umemployment,and they are getting themselves together,I see nothing wrong.I am happy I am back to work,PS this was not at all meant to offend you Marblez,Everything else you listed I definately agree with,You've always been a very good friend to me.

[Guest Game of Chance]

No transvestite hookers. I just can't do it anymore.

[Steven]

she's probably just searching for a degree of stability at that persons stage in their life darque........you know how it is, we search for compatibility and that moves beyond commonalities....it also includes some good old fashioned logistical realities as well. And every woman needs to (and should) feel safe and secure in a relationship, that's natural, and it helps a great deal with the respect thign towards their mate......

[Homicidalheathen]

WHAT ARE YOU LOOKING FOR??? THE PERFECT MAN OR SOMETHING??? Sheesh!

Along with lying, stealing, cheating... A few that I need to keep reminding myself of, no matter how lonely I get:

No "bottoms".

No fast food junkies.

No drug users (excluding very very limited marijuana).

No one at, near or shortly after bankruptcy.

No one with more than 3-4 months unemployment in the last 12.

No one with high unpaid debt including credit card or child support.

No one on the sex offenders list.

No one with multiple unrelated felonies.

No one with less than 30 years left to their life expectancy.

and the new killer:

No one less than 180 days out of their last life-changing relationship.

THink I am being too picky?  Add to that the fact that he has to be willing to date ME!! uh yeah. 

(sings) "On my own pretending he's beside me...."

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[Marblez]

WHAT ARE YOU LOOKING FOR???  THE PERFECT MAN OR SOMETHING???  Sheesh! 

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If that's anyone's all inclusive definition of the "perfect man"...they have some seriously low standards. It says nothing of intelligence, education, attitude, drive, religion, political compatibilities....

Those are just minimums for consideration of a lasting relationship. I have "dated" some really great guys outside of that list, but the reality of a future just wasn't there.

[Marblez]

I agree on everything but the employment thing,due too so many people losing their jobs in America,its not their fault they got laid off,as long as they are trying to find work while on umemployment,and they are getting themselves together,I see nothing wrong.I am happy I am back to work,PS this was not at all meant to offend you Marblez,Everything else you listed I definately agree with,You've always been a very good friend to me.

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Employment difficulties do not make a person any less of a person, but Steven is right. A recent history of long periods of unemployment brings up questions of stability over the long term. That is actually one of the few things on there that can change over time for someone - some of the others are straight out - you have it or don't.

[Steven]

Employment difficulties do not make a person any less of a person, but Steven is right. A recent history of long periods of unemployment brings up questions of stability over the long term.  That is actually one of the few things on there that can change over time for someone - some of the others are straight out - you have it or don't.

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I actually liked your last stipulation the best - the 180 day thing. I think that's smart for many reasons.

[Der Nister]

For me it's like this...

I will not date women that:

Get pregnant from one guy while still married to another.

Sleep with men they meet on the internet after only kowing them for 20 minutes.

Sleep with guys (the same night) they meet at stores.

Have an abortion just because.

Std's - yea that's obvious.

Lie in order to get perscription drugs.

Make threats of violent nature.

Are control freaks.

Have no understanding of compassion.

Lie to hurt my child.

Are hypocrites.

Look down on others.

Manipulate.

Cause trouble for others.

Have trouble keeping friends.

Can't appreciate a good guy going out of his way for her.

And that list is what I learned about one woman I dated. Ugh, what a nightmare.

[Marblez]

good list.  makes sense.  just for fun, please explain the "no bottoms" (laughing) stipulation......

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I think you might just know but I will explain a teensy bit anyway. I can be a lot to handle at times...need someone who is up for the task. Sometimes a strong woman just needs a stronger man.

[Marblez]

For me it's like this...

I will not date women that:

Get pregnant from one guy while still married to another.

Sleep with men they meet on the internet after only kowing them for 20 minutes.

Sleep with guys (the same night) they meet at stores.

Have an abortion just because.

Std's - yea that's obvious.

Lie in order to get perscription drugs.

Make threats of violent nature.

Are control freaks.

Have no understanding of compassion.

Lie to hurt my child.

Are hypocrites.

Look down on others.

Manipulate.

Cause trouble for others.

Have trouble keeping friends.

Can't appreciate a good guy going out of his way for her.

And that list is what I learned about one woman I dated. Ugh, what a nightmare.

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Damn straight, what a nightmare!! So glad you don't have to put up with that anymore.

[Hellion]

For me it's like this...

I will not date women that:

Get pregnant from one guy while still married to another.

Sleep with men they meet on the internet after only kowing them for 20 minutes.

Sleep with guys (the same night) they meet at stores.

Have an abortion just because.

Std's - yea that's obvious.

Lie in order to get perscription drugs.

Make threats of violent nature.

Are control freaks.

Have no understanding of compassion.

Lie to hurt my child.

Are hypocrites.

Look down on others.

Manipulate.

Cause trouble for others.

Have trouble keeping friends.

Can't appreciate a good guy going out of his way for her.

And that list is what I learned about one woman I dated. Ugh, what a nightmare.

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Good list!!

[Paper Hearts]

I hate relationships that are just like everyone else's, like they're 'supposed' to be, sort of mechanical and stereotypical. Last woman I was with was like that I think. She just wanted what everyone else had...like she wanted me to be the posterchild boyfriend or something...I just became really bored with it and stopped answering her calls and text messages...until she went away. It's weird to me because in the begining it was really beautiful, like fucking beautiful...

[Der Nister]

I hate relationships that are just like everyone else's, like they're 'supposed' to be, sort of mechanical and stereotypical. Last woman I was with was like that I think. She just wanted what everyone else had...like she wanted me to be the posterchild boyfriend or something...I just became really bored with it and stopped answering her calls and text messages...until she went away. It's weird to me because in the begining it was really beautiful, like fucking beautiful...

Amen PH.

[Steven]

I think you might just know but I will explain a teensy bit anyway.  I can be a lot to handle at times...need someone who is up for the task.  Sometimes a strong woman just needs a stronger man.

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kinda figured (chuckles). still wanted you to spell it out though - dudes are you taking notes?