I'm Getting a Divorce

[BrassFusion]

I'm happy for ya Rachel.

The more I read about things like this though,

kinda makes me feel not so bad about being single.

Very difficult to find someone good to have a relationship these days...

maybe the lame-o state in which you live is the problem

[creatureofthenyte]

maybe the lame-o state in which you live is the problem

And how would you know if its lame or not ?

Have you ever been here ?

IF you've never been to CT, and or know nothing about CT, then making comments about something you don't know about would be ignorant.

I've been to the Detroit area twice now, I like it.

and yeah there could be romantic opportunities for me there, perhaps moreso then here,

but romantic opportunities do not pay bills. I pay my own way, no help from anyone.

I have had the same well paying job, with the same fantastic health insurance,

for almost 6 YEARS now.

The job market in Michigan is pretty lame. I could never live somewhere where I knew there would be the possibility of changing jobs involuntarily, 35 times in the same year.(yes i embellished that, but you get the point)

I can't have that kind of unpredictable, uncertainty in my life.

[BrassFusion]

And how would you know if its lame or not ?

Have you ever been here ?

IF you've never been to CT, and or know nothing about CT, then making comments about something you don't know about would be ignorant.

I've been to the Detroit area twice now, I like it.

and yeah there could be romantic opportunities for me there, perhaps moreso then here,

but romantic opportunities do not pay bills. I pay my own way, no help from anyone.

I have had the same well paying job, with the same fantastic health insurance,

for almost 6 YEARS now.

The job market in Michigan is pretty lame. I could never live somewhere where I knew there would be the possibility of changing jobs involuntarily, 35 times in the same year.(yes i embellished that, but you get the point)

I can't have that kind of unpredictable, uncertainty in my life.

Geez, coo down, fiyacracka. I was only making fun of the state of Connecticut, which I have never been to.

It's not like I was... oh... Never mind!

[bean]

I'm happy for ya Rachel.

The more I read about things like this though,

kinda makes me feel not so bad about being single.

Very difficult to find someone good to have a relationship these days...

No one should ever feel bad about being single. There is way too much pressure put on people to be in a relationship. I would much rather be single than be stuck in a bad relationship. Relationships are not easy, and it is hard to find someone that you "click" with (well, it's hard for me, anyway).

[creatureofthenyte]

No one should ever feel bad about being single. There is way too much pressure put on people to be in a relationship. I would much rather be single than be stuck in a bad relationship. Relationships are not easy, and it is hard to find someone that you "click" with (well, it's hard for me, anyway).

I don't feel bad about bein single. However, as with alot of people, the topic passes through my mind on a regular basis.I just got off the phone with a buddy of mine who is goin through a big dramafest with his gf. I'm begining to feel that working towards the goals ive set for myself should be what I should do for now. I don't want another relationship unless I can find someone that is good and that I click with, to paraphrase you alil bit Rachel.

[Steven]

I can't have that kind of unpredictable, uncertainty in my life.

I could, if SHE were there with me.