Am i just going to fast

[SpidersMoment]

He tells me he wants to take a break. To get every situated. To get himself into college and do that shit. He basicly said that i was interfereing with all that. Yet he can spend all his fucking time with his friends.

I interfered with nothing. I sat on his bed while he played World of Warcraft, and I'M in the way?

We've spent almost everyday together for the last 3 months, i was happy when he started applying, and i wouldve had no problem if he had been doing that. But why the fucking break, i dont understand.

Why should i be punished for something that his lazy ass didn't want to do?

God damnit, i want to break things, i want to hurt something..........

GUH!!! why isnt anyone online!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[Moonlight_Phantasy]

Hun, I dont know what to say, except that just from that little excerpt it sounds like you were more like a trophy than a gf.

[Guest Megalicious]

Edited because I have nothing of value to say .. ever ..

[SpidersMoment]

??????

[BrassFusion]

He's a loser. The quicker you get rid of him, the easier it will be.

[Onyx]

Wish I were around when you were onilne! I'd love to chat.

I've been there more than once. Occasionally it's been me but mostly it's been someone I've been dating. Taking a break can be a good thing though, but it's often painful for the partner.

Probably you didn't really do anything wrong. It's not space from you being there that he wants but probably space in the relationship.

Personally when I've felt that way and someone crowds me then it pushes me away further. I know that probably doesn't help but that's just been my experience. Sometimes after taking a break things can be even better, and sometimes you realize things weren't working well after all.

(((hugs))))

[Brenda Starrr]

World of Warcraft will be the death of my marriage. That's okay. I can survive alone. We all can. It just doesn't feel that way at first. Men are very simple, yet so effen complex. Take the break. You might just discover some amazing things about yourself.

And Meg, you have more value than you can shake a stick at. You're a great friend to me (always HAVE been) and you gave me Punching Satan. If no one else can see how important you are, then they have issues.

You're both two of the coolest ladies in my book. You too, MP, Onyx and BF.

[n0Mad]

And Meg, you have more value than you can shake a stick at.

<{POST_SNAPBACK}>

I concur.

Meg - Who do I turn to when I need to chat? Want advice? Just need to cry on someone's shoulder? Well, lots of people but you're definitely one of them. Look at how we became friends. Well, there was discussion of a violin at first, but after that ... You sighed and bitched to me, I sighed and bitched to you, and we formed our own little two person support group. You always have something of value to say whether people will listen to it or not.

Spidey Chick - I have no experience in this field. Guys get smothered easily though. We see things in a totally different way and just women being in the presence of us can feel committed and emotionally overbearing, even if you're just chillin' on the bed while he's playing WoW or whatever. Spending every day together whether you even talk to each other or not can be a lot for a guy to process and handle. (We have simple brains.) My guess is he's stressing over college and needs some room to breath. He probably really likes you and wants to see the relationship go somewhere, but not so soon. He may feel you want more of a commitment than he's ready for. Hanging out with his friends is completely different. They're laid back and casual and he doesn't feel any pressure from them to impress them, or make them happy, or share emotions with them, or any of that stuff he may feel pressured from you to do. (Trust me, just a gal smiling and saying hi can create some serious pressure in men. No, I'm not talking about that pressure you pervs. Although ...) Anyway, I just woke up and my brain is still sleeping so I'm just rambling stream of conciousness. Hopefully some of it's good.

[BillyDeath]

God helps those who help themselves.

[SpidersMoment]

i talked to him a little bit ago and told him that i felt like i was being punished.

He explains to me that im not and that it's all him.

Then he tells me that since we hung out so much that i ended up feeling more like a friend. Which he takes the blame for cuz he was actually the one wanting to hang out.

then he has the balls to tell me that he's NOT IN THE MOOD FOR A RELATIONSHIP RIGHT NOW

i am so angry with himw right now. I'm hurt but i feel like im over it. i want to drink, i want to party,a nd i want to have all that sex i've been denied for 2+ weeks.

I wish him 10x the pain he has caused me.

[Homicidalheathen]

=(

[Nienna]

Heh.. sounds like me. I was told "I can't be in a relationshipwith anyone, we're such good friends... " Then he never spoke to me again.

As a side note, WoW has destroyed two relationships for me now and is in the process of destroying my best friend's too. :(

[n0Mad]

As a side note, WoW has destroyed two relationships for me now and is in the process of destroying my best friend's too. :(

<{POST_SNAPBACK}>

And people wonder why I refuse to play.

Well, mostly because my computer is getting old and I don't have the time and the money. I mean, it's not like I have a relationship to destroy anyway.

[BrassFusion]

And people wonder why I refuse to play.

Well, mostly because my computer is getting old and I don't have the time and the money.  I mean, it's not like I have a relationship to destroy anyway.

<{POST_SNAPBACK}>

I play Runescape. I've never played WoW. From what I hear, Runescape is like WoW's retarded cousin.

And I'm ok with that.

[SpidersMoment]

I play Runescape. I've never played WoW. From what I hear, Runescape is like WoW's retarded cousin.

And I'm ok with that.

<{POST_SNAPBACK}>

my cousin said he's been playing that game for 2 months straight

[Scary Guy]

My parents got married after two months time and are still togeather.

Too fast is a relative term.

[Brenda Starrr]

Too fast is a relative term.

<{POST_SNAPBACK}>

^^What he said.

[SpidersMoment]

ugh, i'm feeling ok now.......after sitting around with a friend drinking and watching sex in the city, we actually talked about relationships which we havent done .......ever....cuz we were always afraid of being judged by another friends. But i'm telling you, getting all that out in the open just makes me so good.

I still think it's bullshit, and i want to know if he was trying to get rid of me so he can move on to the next girl. But at teh same time.....i dont want to know.....cuz i think it just make me feel worse, and i dont want to cry anymore.

I was talking to a psychic friend of mine. And even though i dont beleive 100% in the readings. She told me that a relationship was coming up, but to beware because it'll be all sex.....and told me to watch myself cuz she sees a pregnancy scare.......doesnt make you feel so good? *rolls eyes*

[SpidersMoment]

WEll i found out what i didnt want to know. And yes, he did dump me for another girl. Girl who i had suspision about since she would go over and hang out with his brother, and she would end up drunk. And having a drunk girl that i dont know around my bf all night doesnt make me feel safe.

ANYways....so yeah....i was lied to and i had to find it out the hard way.........

...........oh well..........

I'm ready to move on.......

...it's just going to be hard to stop having flashbacks....

I think he ruined gaming for me..........

[Gothmama25]

Just remember that its his loss & not yours. Also what it sounds like to me is that who needs a guy like that when you know that you can do 10x better than that loser. If I were you I wouldnt waste a single tear on him, cause no guy like that is worth it.