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Evertime When my family get's together it is bullshit I don't need. Dammit, what can I do to avoid this useless bullshit. None of the spat is relevant it is usually something that revolves around issues has happened ten fucking years ago. It is one thing if suffering the drama would help, but it doesn't do a fucking thing but listen other people's problem and can mess the rest of the day.

What really pisses me of is that some members want me to play certain roles. Sometimes they tell me to cut my hair all because I feel that they want me be something that doesn't fit my personnality. It's like being a poser for them so they can use me as a puppet.

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Their veneer of empathy is washed away by the black sea of my tormented soul!

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wow. I'm going to print that out and post it on my refrigerator!

:laughing

Thanks for making my boring afternoon a bit brighter. :tongue:

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17. Pack your shit and move out.

I got kicked out of my mothers house when I was 18 for some stupid bullshit. My family has always been at odds with each other.

4yrs away from her helped alot. I got remanded to her custody for a year and have been there over 2. I'm moving in august and never looking back.

If they can't accept you for who you are they don't really love you.

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Something somebody once told me.

We love our families. We do. There is an obligation to family I think. Blood is thicker than water.

We don't neccessarily have to like our families. But we have an obligation to love them.

You don't have to like them. We don't like the things they do or say. We get hurt by them and then get over it. In the end they are still there.

Families usully tend to have expectations of one another.

Friends, well, we can choose our friends, and they choose us back.

We don't have an obligation to friends like we do with family.

Friends don't have the same high expecations that family does. They like us for who we are, and don't expect us to change...and vs versa.

Which is why some of my closest friends are referred to more as family than friends.

make sense?

If not, it's cause I didn't think hard enough..... :doh :whistling

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We don't neccessarily have to like our families. But we have an obligation to love them.

Not when you had a childhood like mine ... I am not obligated to love anyone, love is a choice.

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Do the bastards still try to make you wear Izods?

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No but not all of them understand the goth thing they think I am doing it to make a statement. I dont even dress like that when I am around them. They mostly talk me in to cutting my hair.

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