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Gothmama25

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Have u ever had a one-night stand that u wish would not have happened?

I did and the messed up part is that I had known the guy for almost 10 years. I met him on a camping trip for a group we were both members of. We became friends and about a year later things happened and I ended up losing touch with him. I reconnected with him about 8 years later when I looked him up on the net. He took me to CC on 6-24(it was my first time there). I really liked him and would've loved to start a relationship with him. :swoon

But after we left the club I thought we had really conected in a special way so I slept with him. The next day he left my house and just totally blew me off. If I would've known that was gonna happen I would never have slept with him. =(

I would just like to know what did I do to him to deserve such disrespect & disregard. :erm

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People should always be honest about their intentions before they have sex. If this guy lied to you just to get in your pants well that really sucks, but is that what happened, or did you have feelings for him and just assume he felt the same way? Sometimes we see things we only wish were there. In any case, I'm sorry things didn't go the way you wanted, but don't assume it was anything you did...maybe it was just a miscommunication (unless, as I said, he blatantly lied.)

To answer the question, no I haven't. There's a few encounters in my past that I would not repeat, but it was what I wanted at the time and made sense in the moment. *shrugs* life goes on.

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Yes, but the way you described.....is probably the worst. No I guess it could be worse than getting some, thinking you have found the man of your dreams then he never calls again. =( What about waking up next to someone you really feel you shouldn't have slept with? Not that I have done that or anything. :whistling But, doing it with a friend that should stay platonic can really mess things up big time. :tear

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From what I just learned this guy gets around CC alot. He pays for stuff like cover charge and drinks. Then he takes advantage of the intoxicated female.

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You've known him for almost 10 years and you just figured this out? Come on. Apparently, you don't know him at all. It's done. It's over. You need to let it die.

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You've known him for almost 10 years and you just figured this out? Come on. Apparently, you don't know him at all. It's done. It's over. You need to let it die.

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Well I did say that I hadent seen him in 7-8 years. Its not like people have their side effects written on them either. Im a SCORPIO so I will let it go on DGN, but its not done, I am not letting him get away with it. He is not gonna think that its okay to do such a cruel & vicious thing to someone. I guess he doesnt know me that well either.

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From what I just learned this guy gets around CC alot. He pays for stuff like cover charge and drinks. Then he takes advantage of the intoxicated female.

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thats low, dispicable, and just not the way a man should act.

i'm going to have to teach ettiquette my next appearance in detroit.

my resume:

wine waiter to the duke of glouster

student in Kalarippayat

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Well I did say that I hadent seen him in 7-8 years. Its not like people have their side effects written on them either. Im a SCORPIO so I will let it go on DGN, but its not done, I am not letting him get away with it.  He is not gonna think that its okay to do such a cruel & vicious thing to someone.  I guess he doesnt know me that well either.

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You were the very last person to know what a dick he is. Trust me. And if whatever happened was consentual, it wasn't cruel and/or vicious.

As a scorpio (cough)... why not just let it go in general? He's not worth it.

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