Valentine's Day Blows

[JaneDead]

oh, my husband knows. and it is not even about getting something. i don't want jewlery or anything like that. i want more of an "appreciation"

on that day. just a hug, kiss, i love you, dinner brought home so i don't have to cook that night, a card he made, a silly poem he wrote about how much i smell, i don't care. something thoughtful. he knows i want it, and he knows i get sad when it doesn't happen. i don't dwell on it though. i don't build myself up for the day, nor am i let down the day after when nothing happens. but all night last night i was pretty "let down" that there was just nothing other than him telling me he WAS going to get me and our daughter flowers but he forgot. well then don't tell me that either! i was like oh ok that's fine. but he knows i was upset and even got irritated that i was upset. i know he is far from romantic, i have always known that. and i don't need or want that every day but once in a great while that would be nice. and if he can't do it on his own- which he can't- i would think v.d. would be a good chance for him to do it. oh well. like i said- i am already over it.

[torn asunder]

if valentine really blows, i'd like to meet her!! :laughing:

[Brenda Starrr]

Hi. I'm Valentine.........

[fallennon]

Hey I was gonna say that Brenda!!! Can we both be Valentine???? *pouts* LOL

[Brenda Starrr]

Nope. Just me. I said it first!

[fallennon]

DAMN IT!!!!!!!!

[The_Dark]

This isn't Highlander.. there can be more than one.

[JaneDead]

i agree. but i was thinking more like this is not the dukes of hazard. there can be more than one daisy.

[phee]

....And it certainly continued to do so this last time....

[Brenda Starrr]

**hugs Phee**

[The_Dark]

I've been thinking about this holiday all week.. trying to find a way to explain how I feel about it. I thought at first that it was a complicated thing to explain, it's not.

I am very much in love with my wife. As much, if not more than those first few magic months when nothing can go wrong with a new relationship. Everyday I tell her I love her, not for her... but because I love her so much I have to vent it before I explode. Sometimes, when I look at her.. no matter where we are or what we are doing, I have to tell her just how pretty she is. Her beauty over powers me and I just have to say something. I'm that guy that shows pictures of his wife to everyone with that proud look on my face. "See, even a loser like me can get wonderfull woman to like them." When I sense she is stressed.. I draw her a bubble bath, light candles, incense and make excuses to the boys of why they cant find Mom.

To me, Valentine's Day is an excuse to celebrate what I feel everyday. Absolute undieing love for the perfect woman.

[JaneDead]

oh my god that made me cry

[torn asunder]

...made me nauseous.. :ermm: : :laughing:

[JaneDead]

torn- don't playa hate aight?

[torn asunder]

yeah, yeah - don't hate the player, hate the game, right!? :ermm: :whistling:

[JaneDead]

um i think so? not sure?

[Shade Everdark]

We have a day earmarked for love. I vote we should take Sweetest Day and turn it into a day earmarked for hate.

Who's with me?

[Brenda Starrr]

Wow, TD...

You sound like my husband. That is the coolest thing ever, to see men who really love the one that they are with. He doesn't light candles or draw me a bath, but his words and the way he looks at me every day are all I really need. After years of abuse, I never thought I'd find this.

Your lovely wife is a very lucky lady. Just like me.

[gothicmom]

I told him I didn't care and that I didn't expect him to get me anything, he said it didn't matter he still felt bad.

Bishop came home with flowers last night!

He told me later that he is starting to like the holiday a bit more now that he can buy something. I know you can have a good V-day without buying things, but thats not how he is. He likes to get home made things, but doesn't like to do home made things.

Dyno, do you do anything for your husband or kids for V-day?

[DarkChylde]

The only one memory's I actually enjoyed on V-day is back when I was still in high-skewl, This chick I truly despised for having everyone picked on me and litarly beatin the crap out of, 1 year later she decide's to have feelings for me for some odd fucked up reason, for awhile I was gonna tell her to go fuck herself and eat shit n die, but before I said anything, an idea popped in my head and realized it was gonna be V-day in the next week, so instead of throwing my hatred at her I decided to play it cool and pretend that everything was kewl and also played along of how she felt. As when I got home I walked to I-275 free-way and picked up a dead poodle that was chillen on the free-way for couple of month's, half of it's face/body was all rotted and decayed you could see half of it's skeleton and skull also litarly full of maggot's, I took it home and threw it behind the shed where no one could see, then I went to the gift shop bought a huge heart valentine gift box with bunch of nice shiny red/pink ribbon's. Once I got home I wrapped the dead poodle into the gift box nice n neat, wrapped pink plastic over the box with a rose and a little poem attatched on the top. Meanwhile at skewl I was really growing sick n tired of sucking up to this bitch, I just felt like plain smacking the hell out of her just for all the shit she's done to me, plus I was getting really annoyed by her preppy sounding squeaky voice, but I continued to put up with it for awhile just so that everything can go according to my scheme's. Finally, it was V-day, I brought the gift and of course a baseball bat because I already knew that shit's going ta litarly hit the fan, once I got to skewl I walked up to her locker where she was waiting along with the rest of her stoopid preppy cheerleader friend's, I gave her the gift and said with a huge fake smile on my face and said *happy V-day* she was staring at the box with glare and all happy/surprised look on her face and told me that I shouldnt have and that's the sweetest thing I ever done, I said *wait t'ill when you open the box as I grinned deeply* she asked me whut I was doing with the bat and I said that I was gonna try ta practice some baseball she was like ok. Her friends was getting all giggly happy n all that sick shit too. She started opening the box in happyness, once she looked in she litarly freaked the fuck out and screamed bloody murder accidently threw the dead poodle across the hall-way hitted couple of her friends on the way maggot's flung everywhere and other people *specailly chix* screamed in horror too as they saw it skid across the floor and flung maggot's on them. Her dumb body guard football friends started walking towards me cracking there fist like I was expecting them to anyways, then I pulled out my bat and dared them to get any closer, instead of approaching they started backing away, so afterwards I ended up in the good ol looney ben for couple of week's and got suspended from skewl for a whole month.

Thats my good ol adventure that can never be forgotten on V-day

[The_Dark]

Wow. No offense.. but you have issues man.

[Brenda Starrr]

[fallennon]

I'm with Dark and Brenda on that one...

[JaneDead]

wow that is totally twisted and sick.

gm- i do get my kids a little something. and i haven't really done much for my husband as of late since he really doesn't like or care about the holiday. my son always brings home little things from school that he makes that i love i actually don't want presents on that day. nothing like outrageously expensive roses or anything. just dinner cooked like i said or a massage or something super sweet would be nice.

[The_Dark]

Talk to gorf.. maybe she will rent me out for a day....