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I noticed I turn to food when I am stressed. Well this wouldn't be a problem much except if I eat to much I don't just put on weight....I get physically ill which adds to my problems. Then my life isn't just messed up but I am too.

Its just well, I don't want to use drugs or drink to unwind from a bad day.......its quick and easy and makes me feel good.

I saw a therapist for awhile who suggested other things but it doesn't work when I am down. I want something comforting......I want to feel like I am treating myself, maybe even getting away with something.

Taking a walk just makes me think of my problems more, petting the cats works for a bit.....but.....I usually turn to food. Do you do this? How do you stop?

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I definitely do. That's why I've got a few extra pounds on me. Ummmmm, I don't really do anything to stop it, unfortunately. I just really really like food. And, if I'm stressed out, it really is an easier way to feel better. I know I shouldn't. I should probably go for a walk or something. But I agree, it's just not the same. I need to become like those runners that get so addicted to the endorphines of running that they even do it during the winter. That'd probably be a nice addiction to have. But then I'd have to start running. <sigh> All this talking is making me hungry...

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I stop eating.

My eating habits have gone to hell since falling into depression. If I'm not really focused on making sure I eat during the day, I won't. I'll only eat dinner.

If I was able to get my butt moving, I'd probably have dropped a LOT of weight by now. I doubt I'm eating 1000 calories a day. Except on weekends, when being with Jon who needs to eat forces me to be more "normal".

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That dance tape sounds like fun. :happydance

I too guess I am fortunate...only 4 foot 11 but I do consume 3 to 5000 callories a day and only have like 20-40 lbs to loose, it could be worse I guess. Its that I eat till I don't feel good or the wrong thing and can get very sick. I know I am not trying to kill myself with food though because I am very careful with seeds and nuts.

wish I had creature of the nights drive and control.

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I noticed I turn to food when I am stressed. Well this wouldn't be a problem much except if I eat to much I don't just put on weight....I get physically ill which adds to my problems. Then my life isn't just messed up but I am too.

Its just well, I don't want to use drugs or drink to unwind from a bad day.......its quick and easy and makes me feel good.

I saw a therapist for awhile who suggested other things but it doesn't work when I am down. I want something comforting......I want to feel like I am treating myself, maybe even getting away with something.

Taking a walk just makes me think of my problems more, petting the cats works for a bit.....but.....I usually turn to food. Do you do this? How do you stop?

i noticed when my uncle died that i was a stressed/depressed eater. when i found out he died i made a pound of spaghetti noodles with some butter and ate them all myself. at once. i weighed 98 pounds then and about a week later i was 103 ( i know, such a heffer :happy: ha.) point is i ate and gained 5 pounds just from being depressed.

when i do it now i gain from 5-10 pounds. not a TON but it is still too much since i am "over weight" now and should not be doing the depressed eating thing. well, no one should.

i only feel better because i do this instead of drinking or drugs. but it is still a bad bad thing to do health wise. it really sucks because when i am REALLY depressed i don't seem to feel full. i am not exactly hungry either. but i can eat and it won't phase me. i guess i have never been too depressed though because i have yet to become obese or anything like that from it. :happy:

as far as how you stop? i don't really know. i have yet to find a way to avoid it.

i don't "over eat" though, what i do is eat when i am NOT hungry or late at night. so i am not eating a lot at once (not since my spaghetti incident anyways...) i am just eating when i am not actually needing food.

it happens when my mind starts going and won't stop so i can't sleep... so then i THINK i am hungry and eat even though i am NOT hungry. just have an empty feel i guess and food/drugs/drinking/whatever fills that for people.

luckily right now i am not depressed and i am only eating about twice a day. when i eat right/healthy i only need to eat 2 times a day to feel good and productive.

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It really depends on the type of stress for me. If it's something gradual stressing me out, like worrying about not having enough money, I tend to eat a little more than usual and gradually gain ~5 lbs. If it's an abrupt change causing me stress, like a death, a break-up, or changing jobs, I drop weight without even meaning to. When my grandma died I lost about 10 lbs without even trying, same with my last break-up. It's a combination of forgetting to eat(or just picking) and being so anxious that I couldn't sit still.

Actually I have more of a tendency to gain weight now if I feel happy and secure.

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