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I will tell you right now though, this is my opinion and just that.

There are only two people you truely have passionate love for (this does not include family and such but relationship love) The first person, and the last. I say this becuase I believe it is true. I say that the first person you love is someone because it is so pure and innocent. You love this person and they love you back and in the beginning it is a completely new feeling becuase you never were inlove before. This is the person you will compare everyone else in your life to when it comes to future love.

The second person is the last person you will ever love, because nothing else comes after. This person stuck by you, did you no wrong and therefore truely loves you.

Everyone else inbetween is nothing but people who you care for, think you are inlove with but in the end it was not true love, but friendship love.

I just had to get that off my chest. Sorry if you disagree.

Kanuck.

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I will tell you right now though, this is my opinion and just that.

There are only two people you truely have passionate love for (this does not include family and such but relationship love) The first person, and the last. I say this becuase I believe it is true. I say that the first person you love is someone because it is so pure and innocent. You love this person and they love you back and in the beginning it is a completely new feeling becuase you never were inlove before. This is the person you will compare everyone else in your life to when it comes to future love.

The second person is the last person you will ever love, because nothing else comes after. This person stuck by you, did you no wrong and therefore truely loves you.

Everyone else inbetween is nothing but people who you care for, think you are inlove with but in the end it was not true love, but friendship love.

I just had to get that off my chest. Sorry if you disagree.

Kanuck.

What if it's the same person?

Does that mean you've missed out?

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i can't say i agree because i have loved 3 people that much. the second and third get a little complicated but ... definately have been 3.

i loved 2 more (besides the other 3- so total of FIVE :p) but that love didn't last and has gone away. i used to think that once you loved someone you loved them forever (based on my 3 loves that i still love to this day)

but then when i loved 2 others and it "went away" i wondered- does love last? if you love and stop loving did you really love at all? i believe that i did in fact love the other 2 but it was just different love. and i probably was not "in" love with them.

as for the other three... i loved them, do love them and was in love with all of them. i definately feel more love for one of them above the other two but that is complicated too ;)

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I will tell you right now though, this is my opinion and just that.

There are only two people you truely have passionate love for (this does not include family and such but relationship love) The first person, and the last. I say this becuase I believe it is true. I say that the first person you love is someone because it is so pure and innocent. You love this person and they love you back and in the beginning it is a completely new feeling becuase you never were inlove before. This is the person you will compare everyone else in your life to when it comes to future love.

The second person is the last person you will ever love, because nothing else comes after. This person stuck by you, did you no wrong and therefore truely loves you.

Everyone else inbetween is nothing but people who you care for, think you are inlove with but in the end it was not true love, but friendship love.

I just had to get that off my chest. Sorry if you disagree.

Kanuck.

Hmmm....well...yes and no.

I dont compare anyone to Sitka (my first passionate love) ever, because we were kids and that was a lifetime ago and it has its place in my memories and heart. Life is completely different now, I am completely different now, although I doubt she's changed much at all....and no one that I've been involved with has ever really been like anyone before them, every woman has been unique and caught me off guard in her own way, so I cant compare them, and to be honest I'd rather not, its just not hte way I see things.

And in Lola's case, yes she stuck by me, but we had a tragic first season where we did tremendous hurt to one another, although we truly loved one another. Sometimes you move thru life with the limited amount of tools that you've got. Hopefully along the way you'll pick up a few more. You do that and you've got half a shot at it. You may find to yrou suprise that even along the way with "the one".... you still will hurt one another. That parts easy. Its what you do with it thats hard.

I think you decide to love deeply, that's what I beleive. Yes there is chemical reaction and kizmit, but for the long haul, you choose to give it all you have.

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I think you decide to love deeply, that's what I beleive. Yes there is chemical reaction and kizmit, but for the long haul, you choose to give it all you have.

YES!

Not the Hollywood idea of love, but then again if you take a look at their track records, Hollywood doesn't do lasting love anyway.

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That's a weird way to define love.

yeah re-reading that, that is a little weird. how can someone always "do you no wrong"? we all make mistakes and hurt people whether we want to or not. all the people i have loved have hurt me in some way and i have hurt them as well- but i always loved them. and i believe they all love/loved me too.

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I say hit it and hit it and hit it some more. Like a fine wine, it just gets better.

At least that's what they tell ME.

well yeah when i find the one i like to hit it with i just want to hit it all the time after that. all hittin' no quittin'.

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What about unrequited love? There is someone I have been in love with for eight years now. He doesn't feel the same way, and I seriously doubt he ever will, considering that he's now married and suddenly cut all ties with me.

But I still love him and always will.

And as far as Troy is considered, he is the ultimate romantic. I mean look, he said make sure she cums!

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What about unrequited love? There is someone I have been in love with for eight years now. He doesn't feel the same way, and I seriously doubt he ever will, considering that he's now married and suddenly cut all ties with me.

But I still love him and always will.

And as far as Troy is considered, he is the ultimate romantic. I mean look, he said make sure she cums!

this is sort of tortuous, this thing you've described. I just told another friend yesterday....that I used to have a friend, and she was just too.........much. Too much of a perfect match for me, too much physical attraction, too much unspoken understanding between us, too much connection in general for a man who is married and in love with his wife. So she went into the no fly zone, because sometimes you have to guard your fences, even against yourself.

you need to give yourself a chance to give someone else a chance to give you a chance. And leave the past behind you.

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this is sort of tortuous, this thing you've described. I just told another friend yesterday....that I used to have a friend, and she was just too.........much. Too much of a perfect match for me, too much physical attraction, too much unspoken understanding between us, too much connection in general for a man who is married and in love with his wife. So she went into the no fly zone, because sometimes you have to guard your fences, even against yourself.

you need to give yourself a chance to give someone else a chance to give you a chance. And leave the past behind you.

Awww shucks, Steven. You don't have to tell EVERYONE how you feel about me!!!

lol

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Well, I just know my heart. If I feel deep passionate love for someone then to me.....thats what it is. Now to have that AND be good friends with the person....is key to a lasting relationship.

I have had both happen. One, a friend turned into a lover....after hanging out for 7 years....we just sorta moved in that direction. I was not even physically attracted all those years....his heart got to me.

Then I have been in love like wow! Over night sensation. But after awhile he got on my nerves so hanging out for long periods became a chore. But the passion was still there...

I think there are many levels......and types of love.....and it happens in different ways at any time.

Why limit yourself to this is this, and that is that.......blah blah blah.

Go with the flow......enjoy life.....try to get the most of out every relationship....

AND USE CONDOMS!!! :peanutbutterjellytime

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Just hit that ass , make sure she cums and then roll up on out.

Have I ever told you how awesome you are Troy =)

My honest view on love. Its a choice. I've never given myself fully to anyone, it's just not the kind of person I am. I don't believe in compromising myself for anyone, with the exception of my son.

Though the thought is romantic...... :happy:

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