I Hope I Am Not...but Feel I May Be.....

[Homicidalheathen]

My sister is a nurse and bad at math but.....she can figure out doses. I guess some of her (she is a supervisor) underlings CAN'T???

Oh that makes me feel real good and safe going to the hospital now. Oh boy.

I have friends of all ages. Most have thier selfish traits and mental problems but...the younger one's always want to use. They seem worse......don't have their shit together.....or have not figured it out enough to at least be functioning within their fucked up ed ness.

Am use to this from everyone.....people calling when they need or want something.......rides......money.....sex.....

But the younger one's mostly call when they want something.

At least the older ones are more stable and secure and pay their own way.

I know it makes me sound a bit stuck up maybe.....pompous.....but......

Really when your going out.....you want to hang out with people who at least pay their own way, then you know they really like you and are not just using you.

Also, as I am more established and well off......I kinda want people that are like me in that way....on the same level, with the same understanding and life experiences.

Most of the younger people these days have had it sooo easy. Never had to struggle or suffer...not that its necessary...I do occasionally meet some younger people who had it easy but dont take everything for granted. But its rare.

And to those who seemed to have it easy.....and turn out even better than their parents.....kudos to you! good upbringing.....don't know what it is...but your a rare breed these days.

[Homicidalheathen]

Grr. This is what sorta brought this up for me this week. I have a close relative going through the same crap. He does work hard.....and has done well and turned his life around. (he is now 32) but his wife? Lazy, selfish....user bitch. I have never really liked her. Everyone thought I was just being mean. Now they see why.

She has not or has never worked. She is very healthy and able bodied. All she does is sit, eat.....and bitch. They have 2 kids. She won't clean the house or do dishes. He comes home from work and does EVERYTHING. They have grandma watch the kids........when she never leaves the house? Why? Why can't she watch them herself?

But no, she is too lazy so she has grandma (and me) come over to watch the kids....and help out.....while she fucking sits there.

(god I hate this woman)

The house just keeps getting dirtier and dirtier......its all wood floors so you have to sweep and mop everything.

Now, ontop of all this......

She had to have her very well off with full medical benefits (including hospice) sickly parents move in even though her sister is rich with no kids and no job......she could take them in....but......they want to be near the grandkids.

Well I guess living underneath them in the basement is pretty NEAR.

Poor guy, now he has the inlaws living there.....because it is Her wishes. He is miserable.

But this is what he gets.......he married someone who looked and acted just like Barbie as a teen.....and look what he got.

A fat, blown up version of Barbie now in her 30's with 2.5 kids and nothing going for her but attitude.

I tried to tell him not to marry for looks or sex......but........you know kids. Sigh.

I could complain, but it never gets me anywhere.

Long story short - my little brother, his wife, his stepson and their baby live in my parents house. Now, mind you I lived there, but I paid a good chunk of the mortgage that the cash out they took - that I didn't get to see a dime of - wasn't figured into.

They don't pay anything, and haven't for over a year ... and she's pregnant again! Neither one of them has jobs. The wife refuses to do anything ... my brother was sticking up for her to me telling me she CAN'T do anything. Screw that, I had rough pregnancies ... she's pregnant, not dying of cancer. She won't allow him to work, calls him home when he leaves and tells him that he has to come home and take care of the kids because she can't. The house is filthy and disgusting with huge gashes in the wood floor - that wasn't the best in the world, but I kept decent as I could with it being so faded ... kept my kids in check on it and my dogs nails clipped.

My parents pay everything for them. My brother calls and says he can't afford diapers, food and gas all the time, my parents give him cash. My parents complain about it - but won't do anything to stop it.

.... He's never known what living on his own means. He's 26, his wife is 28.

[BrassFusion]

Uh... as for younger people having had it good, not having to struggle ever... it's not as hard to find a job in an uncertain market when you've HAD a job for 10 or 15 years. And older people who get cut loose often get hired over those my age for white collar shit because they have "experience" (regardless whether they're drooling retards). How the fuck am I supposed to get "relevant experience" if no one will hire me except retail and fast food?

[Rayne]

Uh... as for younger people having had it good, not having to struggle ever... it's not as hard to find a job in an uncertain market when you've HAD a job for 10 or 15 years. And older people who get cut loose often get hired over those my age for white collar shit because they have "experience" (regardless whether they're drooling retards). How the fuck am I supposed to get "relevant experience" if no one will hire me except retail and fast food?

That is very true. The job market is crap now-a-days.

I could go on and on ... and on ... and on ... and on about my brother and his wife but I doubt you all want to hear it, it'd probably make most of you, especially the mothers, livid.

[Homicidalheathen]

I am finding just the opposite. People don't want to hire me because they think I expect more.....or am too set in my ways. Having worked in a family owned buisness doesn't help either.