I Am Going To Sound Sexist Again

[Homicidalheathen]

I NEVER get this from women. Only men. I am talking about when you see someone fucked up, the mistake is plain and clear, on paper right in front of you. And, they have the nerve to deny it! Like, what are you going to believe, me or your lying eyes??

There is no excuse.....no other explanation.....other than that HE did this. And it is WRONG.

Now, usually when I bring something like this up to a woman, she may pitch a bitch but eventually she admits she made a mistake.....and we move on whether the problem gets fixed or not....

But not with men. My experience has been....they deny....or blame it on someone else who it COULDN'T possibly be.

At work, at home......its always the same.

Ok rant over.

I am going to go die my hair back to blonde now because well ya know.....I must be stupid or something.

[Gauge]

sounds like you need to start hanging out with different people. either that or look at the ones youve already got a bit closer. i know plenty of women who do that exact thing. . .quite a few of them actually. the thing you need to realize is that anytime you have on person that acts one way theres going to be hundreds of others that are doing the exact same thing, guys, girls it really doesnt matter.

[Gaf The Horse With Tears]

Exactly.. denial knows no sexual bounds.

[know_buddy_kares]

Same with gaf and gauge, I know plenty of women as well as men who will try to lie, twist, and manipulate as much as they can to try to make it look like they're not the one's who are wrong.

[Homicidalheathen]

I think in my life....its these aquarians......my dad is one....and I do seem to find myself in the company of them.

My dad cannot admit he is wrong......

so......when all else fails.....just to keep the peace.....I blame it on....

The gnomes!!!!

[creatureofthenyte]

I NEVER get this from women. Only men. I am talking about when you see someone fucked up, the mistake is plain and clear, on paper right in front of you. And, they have the nerve to deny it! Like, what are you going to believe, me or your lying eyes??

There is no excuse.....no other explanation.....other than that HE did this. And it is WRONG.

Now, usually when I bring something like this up to a woman, she may pitch a bitch but eventually she admits she made a mistake.....and we move on whether the problem gets fixed or not....

But not with men. My experience has been....they deny....or blame it on someone else who it COULDN'T possibly be.

At work, at home......its always the same.

Ok rant over.

I am going to go die my hair back to blonde now because well ya know.....I must be stupid or something.

A woman I was dating a few years ago,

cheated on me.

When confronted about it,

even though she got ratted out,

by the guy she cheated on me with,

she walked up to me,

and looked me in my eyes and said she loves me,

and that she didn't cheat.

Even though, I knew the truth,

she still tried to lie to me.

Maybe it is your experience HH,

that Men lie to you more then Women do.

Like Guage said, perhaps you need to hang out with different people.

One thing We ALL need to remember is: Men & Women are Both HUMAN;

we're not perfect, and Both Men & Women are equally as capable of making mistakes.

Whether or not we admit to them readily or not, speaks to the conviction of,

and to the content of the character,

of the individual in question.

I do not believe in blaming stuff on one gender; that's biased, sexist,chauvanistic, and just not fair.

Sorry for the long-winded reply, I'm not at all mad by the way, its just that this thread really struck a nerve in me.

Gender based stereotyping is just bullshit in my opinion.

[Hellion]

A woman I was dating a few years ago,

cheated on me.

When confronted about it,

even though she got ratted out,

by the guy she cheated on me with,

she walked up to me,

and looked me in my eyes and said she loves me,

and that she didn't cheat.

Even though, I knew the truth,

she still tried to lie to me.

Maybe it is your experience HH,

that Men lie to you more then Women do.

Like Guage said, perhaps you need to hang out with different people.

One thing We ALL need to remember is: Men & Women are Both HUMAN;

we're not perfect, and Both Men & Women are equally as capable of making mistakes.

Whether or not we admit to them readily or not, speaks to the conviction of,

and to the content of the character,

of the individual in question.

I do not believe in blaming stuff on one gender; that's biased, sexist,chauvanistic, and just not fair.

Sorry for the long-winded reply, I'm not at all mad by the way, its just that this thread really struck a nerve in me.

Gender based stereotyping is just bullshit in my opinion.

I aggree

[Hellion]

Same with gaf and gauge, I know plenty of women as well as men who will try to lie, twist, and manipulate as much as they can to try to make it look like they're not the one's who are wrong.

Yup gender bashing is not going to help the situation any better

[Destroit]

I lie to myself all the time, a few times an hour at least, and I'm a girl. I don't lie to other people though, although you'd never know if I were telling the truth on the matter. Honest.

[Troy Spiral (13)]

I know at least two of my ex girlfriends who were virtually incapable of admitting any mistakes. Both my parents have the "i'm always right" disease. Luckily they have been getting better about it in their old age. To bad it took 50+ years.

There is a natural instinct to what to "defend" yourself , but some people are so far up their own behinds they cant see that its actually a HELP to them to have critical commentary, it helps one improve.

Some just have a violent aversion to even the IDEA that they might be wrong about something.

[BrassFusion]

my ears are burning, troy...

[Homicidalheathen]

I can't honestly say I have not been in a serious relationship where this did not happen. This is why if I am ever fortunate enough to be single again.....I AM STAYING THAT WAY. Forever. Not just because I only believe in one marriage per lifetime. But because humans are not capable of treating each other right AND being happy.

It took me 12 yrs to start treating others how they treated me. I still don't like it....I am just stuck here. Health issues and whatnot.

A woman I was dating a few years ago,

cheated on me.

When confronted about it,

even though she got ratted out,

by the guy she cheated on me with,

she walked up to me,

and looked me in my eyes and said she loves me,

and that she didn't cheat.

Even though, I knew the truth,

she still tried to lie to me.

Maybe it is your experience HH,

that Men lie to you more then Women do.

Like Guage said, perhaps you need to hang out with different people.

One thing We ALL need to remember is: Men & Women are Both HUMAN;

we're not perfect, and Both Men & Women are equally as capable of making mistakes.

Whether or not we admit to them readily or not, speaks to the conviction of,

and to the content of the character,

of the individual in question.

I do not believe in blaming stuff on one gender; that's biased, sexist,chauvanistic, and just not fair.

Sorry for the long-winded reply, I'm not at all mad by the way, its just that this thread really struck a nerve in me.

Gender based stereotyping is just bullshit in my opinion.

[Gauge]

This is why if I am ever fortunate enough to be single again.....I AM STAYING THAT WAY. Forever.

It took me 12 yrs to start treating others how they treated me. I still don't like it....I am just stuck here. Health issues and whatnot.

fortunate enough to be single? if your that misserable beeing in a relationship get out!

so what your saying is that people treat you like shit because you let them? DONT LET THEM!!

[Sybil]

Everyone does this from birth.

hahahahahaha

Some of us "grow out" of it... and learn to admit to things.

Some of us dont.

[TrixieGothGirl]

I think in my life....its these aquarians......my dad is one....and I do seem to find myself in the company of them.

My dad cannot admit he is wrong......

so......when all else fails.....just to keep the peace.....I blame it on....

The gnomes!!!!

When my dad was still alive he couldn't & wouldn't admit that he was wrong. He even had trouble saying "I'm sorry". BTW, he was an Aries. He never even tried to get along with his own children. As my aunt(his oldest sister) told me as we were talking about their childhood, their mother spoiled the shit out of him. That's because he became a diabetic as a child (he was their only son) and I guess she felt she had to baby him because he was 'sickly'. Mind you, this was back in the '30s.