Key Traits Of The Ideal Mate ?

[crunchy_pickle (5)]

This is pretty much the short version. I'm very fucking picky.

A little crazy is kinda cool, but within limits that don't threaten my safety. Danger is fun, but I'd like to live as well.

Intelligence is important. I don't care if you're fucking Einstein, but you should be able to hold a conversation with me.

Easy on the eyes. I'm sensitive.

Knows how to have a good time.

Amazing at sex.

Doesn't bore the piss out of me.

Unafraid.

Not the jealous type.

A smartass.

Not afraid to try new things.

Likes fucking with people.

Likes Audio and Video shit.

Gamer.

Wouldn't mind taping sex in pubic places.

Not afraid to love me.

Wants to conquer all with me.

Likes to travel.

Affectionate.

Not clingy.

Believes that true love never dies or fades.

[nilhil_glory]

anyone who can grab my collar and be like down bitch ...heel... i think thats more or less what i need .>.> im all over the place

[crunchy_pickle (5)]

anyone who can grab my collar and be like down bitch ...heel... i think thats more or less what i need .>.> im all over the place

Many have tried and failed with me . Personally, I only feel the control factor appealing when I have total control of her every twitch in the bedroom.......

Aside from that, I gave up on controlling myself a long time ago, and would prefer someone who also lacks self control in most regards....

[Daniel]

Someone on my Livejournal friends list posted this the other day. I am not sure what it is from, but it sums it up for me nicely:

It doesn't interest me what you do for a living. I want to know what you ache for, and if you dare dream of meeting your heart's longing.

It doesn't interest me how old you are. I want to know if you will risk looking like a fool for love, for your dream, for the adventure of being alive.

It doesn't interest me what planets are squaring your moon. I want to know if you have touched the centre of your own sorrow, if you have been opened by life's betrayals or have become shriveled and closed from fear of further pain. I want to know if you can sit with pain, mine or your own, without moving to hide it or fade it or fix it.

I want to know if you can be with joy, mine or your own, if you can dance with wildness and let ecstasy fill you to the tips of your fingers and toes without cautioning us to be careful, to be realistic, to remember the limitations of being human.

It doesn't interest me if the story you are telling me is true. I want to know if you can disappoint another to be true to yourself. if you can bear the accusation of betrayal and not betray your own soul; if you can be faithless and therefore trustworthy.

I want to know if you can see beauty, even when it's not pretty, every day, and if you can source your own life from its presence.

I want to know if you can live with failure, yours and mine, and still stand on the edge of the lake and shout to the silver of the full moon, "YES!"

It doesn't interest me to know where you live or how much money you have, I want to know if you can get up, after the night of grief and despair, weary and bruised to the bone, and do what needs to be done to feed the children.

It doesn't interest me who you know and how you came to be here. I want to know if you will stand in the center of the fire with me and not shrink back.

It doesn't interest me where or what or with whom you have studied. I want to know what sustains you, from the inside, when all else falls away.

I want to know if you can be alone with yourself and if you truly like the company you keep in empty moments.

Ultimately, I'm interested in being inspired. Inspire me, show me a new world outside of my own.

[crunchy_pickle (5)]

I don't think the last line belongs, but it's called "The Invitation" by Oriah.

[Kit Kat P]

i need to learn new things often..

this summer i learned how to rebuild the trans for an F350 turbo strike diesel.. pretty neat.

we have a new job in the shop that is "my baby".. its a challenge and that is "ideal" to me.

God you just got so sexxy.

[Msterbeau]

I don't think the last line belongs, but it's called "The Invitation" by Oriah.

I was going to say that if someone didn't beat me to it. Most people I know find it very inspirational/comforting... They're good words. Making them real is not always easy...