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Killer_Bunnie Newbie

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please take no offense, but this is wrong on so many levels...

I don't take offense. I am stuck in an unhappy place, I was quite angry when I posted, but still it's true, I want something else, he tells me to find someone else frequently. I've already been told he chooses her over me but I don't leave because I have nobody to talk to, my friends never liked him so they don't talk to me anymore. I tried for 2 years to make it work, I still try for the sake of our son. I know it sounds cold, and that's because I don't know how else to express it, I am cold now, I am cut off from everyone but him and he makes me miserable more often than happy.

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I dont' think it is 'wrong'. People try to act like their lives are perfect......I love my wife/husband all the time......I have the perfect job.....ect.......ect....

I think its bullshit.

Settling for less in the mean time is better than being alone to some people cause they get depressed or are sick......whatever.....

It was refreshing to me to see such honesty on this board. And you probably wrote just wanting a bit of support, not bashing.

Not all of us can run out right away and 'fix' things.....its easy to say just do this, just do that....just be alone then......we don't all run the same way.....our clocks are not all tuned alike and all ya know?

I mean, I hope you have the perfect relationship for you, whatever that is someday......but in the mean time.....thanks for sharing. :grouphug

I don't take offense. I am stuck in an unhappy place, I was quite angry when I posted, but still it's true, I want something else, he tells me to find someone else frequently. I've already been told he chooses her over me but I don't leave because I have nobody to talk to, my friends never liked him so they don't talk to me anymore. I tried for 2 years to make it work, I still try for the sake of our son. I know it sounds cold, and that's because I don't know how else to express it, I am cold now, I am cut off from everyone but him and he makes me miserable more often than happy.

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know_buddy_kares Proficient

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I had to do the move i never thought I could possibly do, turn my ex down... but really.. as of lately and how ALL my ex's have treated me like shit... this makes perfect sense... I tend to play into being bitch to a girl and honestly that gets me in bad ju ju as i become they're whipping boy. But more importantly, I'm just not able to get close to people... and turning more and more into a lecher.. much like the Monk on Inuyasha, I'm a good guy with good morals and alot of deep troubling issues on my plate with a far from perfect past that aways comes back to haunt me, but i'm also just a fucking horrible flirt... and I don't think i could settle down and get serious with any one woman anymore than idle flirting... i just don't have the faith in humanity to get that serious anymore, and am quite content with harmless flirting.

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I'm single, with no intention of ever having kids. I believe in following my instincts, and not settling for a relationship that doesn't agree with me. Not listening to my instincts about someone and trying to be a counselor has always driven me over the edge. I have yet to find someone who clicks with me without driving me over the edge, and until then I'm more satisfied with being on my own.

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I dont' think it is 'wrong'. People try to act like their lives are perfect......I love my wife/husband all the time......I have the perfect job.....ect.......ect....

I think its bullshit.

Settling for less in the mean time is better than being alone to some people cause they get depressed or are sick......whatever.....

It was refreshing to me to see such honesty on this board. And you probably wrote just wanting a bit of support, not bashing.

Not all of us can run out right away and 'fix' things.....its easy to say just do this, just do that....just be alone then......we don't all run the same way.....our clocks are not all tuned alike and all ya know?

I mean, I hope you have the perfect relationship for you, whatever that is someday......but in the mean time.....thanks for sharing. :grouphug

Aww HH I think that is one of the nicest things I have ever seen on this board.

And Becca, You know you always have me to talk to if you need it. I know your kinda of far but we should have the boys have a play date some time soon. I want to see Logan and how big he is.

Happily taken. I have a Jarod, a Keegan and now a new furry daughter ferret named Clementine.

It's like having three kids, it keeps me on my toes, and I love ever second of it.

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