I Feel Proud Of Myself

[FarrIL]

I learned the hard way that lowering my standards to please others only causes needless suffering.

To be blunt and honest, and giving the story in the a nutshell, the guy used me to cheat on his girlfriend.

Last week, he randomly messaged me on AIM and said things along the lines of "it's been a while and for some odd reason, I felt I should message you. Message me back if you want."

I signed onto AIM today and received and offline message from the same guy, saying "sorry for bugging you".

After debating it for the past week or so, should I message him or should I not, I came to the consclusion that if he IMed me again, I'd message him back.

This is what I wrote:

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"Sorry for bugging you"

Yeah, you better be.

Dont ever message me again. Dont talk to me again. You've got some serious balls for messaging me, saying that you felt you should've.

I dont have anything nice to say to you. Especially not now. We're not friends anymore, I hope you're aware of that.

I learned the hard way that lowering MY morals and standards, to please somebody else, only causes pain and suffering.... and needless drama and stress. I learned the hard way that I dont need people like you in my life and I feel bad for M*** that she has such an unfaithful boyfriend.

She deserves a lot better than you. She needs a MAN, not a little boy.

I've received a lot of encouragement to break this bridge. Not only is this bridge being burned, but the charred remains are flowing down the river. I dont care anymore. It's in the past. And I'm happy for the fact that my boyfriend KNOWS my mistake, before we even started dating, and he's been a MAN and chosen to not judge me by my mistake.

If I ever saw you face to face, you'd be lucky if I uttered a response to you saying hello.

Leave me alone.

Wake up and face the fact that you are weak and that M*** is strong. Wake up and face the fact what a wonderful girlfriend you have for dealing with your crap.

Also, Grow Up.

[Jadis]

Good for you FarrIL.

[crunchy_pickle (5)]

Yeah, I find very few exceptions to the rule that if people are unfaithful to the one's they say "I love you" to, they probably won't make the most loyal friends, lovers, companions to me. This is one of those shitty "life experience" lessons, that you never really think will ever happen to you while you're caught up in a moment.... I'm sorry you had to go through this, but happy that you won't be anymore. You're too good of a person to deal with that bullshit hon.

[FarrIL]

Yeah, I find very few exceptions to the rule that if people are unfaithful to the one's they say "I love you" to, they probably won't make the most loyal friends, lovers, companions to me. This is one of those shitty "life experience" lessons, that you never really think will ever happen to you while you're caught up in a moment.... I'm sorry you had to go through this, but happy that you won't be anymore. You're too good of a person to deal with that bullshit hon.

Alas, even someone like me is still subject to fall into temptation when it arises.

But still, a few good things have come out of it:

I dont have that weak-willed idiot involved in my life in any way now.

I was sure of myself in knowing that I wasnt going to get hung up on my mistake.

It gave me strength to move on and forget about other people that I hadnt kept in contact with.

Plus that, Brian (( my man )) knows of my mistake, before he even asked me out. This guy has no devil which he doesnt admit to. Therefore, he just shrugged his shoulders and said "I'm not judging you on that."

Overall, I can kinda say I'm grateful to the outcome.

[creatureofthenyte]

good for you.

If your ex friend's gf finds out about all this, in a way that would be good.

I'm sure she wouldn't be thrilled to learn about how you factored into it.

But, you were not officially involved in a relationship @ time that event took place; he was/is.

So, his misconduct should weigh more heavily with guilt then yours... I think.

[FarrIL]

good for you.

If your ex friend's gf finds out about all this, in a way that would be good.

I'm sure she wouldn't be thrilled to learn about how you factored into it.

But, you were not officially involved in a relationship @ time that event took place; he was/is.

So, his misconduct should weigh more heavily with guilt then yours... I think.

Oh no, his girlfriend was told two days after it happened. I made sure of that. If he wasnt going to tell her, I would. I made the idiot CRY HIS EYES OUT. (( Sure as hell made me feel better )).

[creatureofthenyte]

Oh no, his girlfriend was told two days after it happened. I made sure of that. If he wasnt going to tell her, I would. I made the idiot CRY HIS EYES OUT. (( Sure as hell made me feel better )).

ROFLLMMFAO!!!

[FarrIL]

Yeah, I had to laugh too. =3

[Shade Everdark]

I was the other man, once, so I'm just...going to keep my mouth shut.

[Head Wreck]

i've not had many women stay faithfull to me to be honest.

come to expect it. and hence prefer being single.

i dont blame anyone for cheating tbh. but i have a very dim view of the average person but i dont blame them for it.

how many goth points is the above for scoring with goth chicks?