All Hope Is Not Lost

[the eternal]

I want to tell something to all the people that "no one understands" and that "no one has ever felt like" etc etc|

since many of you are young and relatively new to the board-------

MOST of the people on DGN have felt the depth of pain that you have.

Some worse.

Of course, some of us felt that level of pain for MUCH dumber reasons than you have.

(you may have had the shittiest childhood on the planet, I don't know)

And, possibly some even felt pain for slightly better ones.

And that's okay. It takes nothing away from what you're feeling

Your pain is yours.

No one can claim they understand EXACTLY how you're feeling, because they haven't lived your life.

They have no idea the kind of crap you endured, and/or continue to suffer with.

But you are not alone

Some on DGN having survived great emotional and physical pain may even be receptive,

and understanding to you,

if given the chance.

So, feel your pain. Every inch of it.

Own it.

But don't fear you are the first to feel this way. (Unfortunately, you're not)

And don't let it run your life

or ruin it.

Because the best revenge to the fuckers that caused you harm, is success and a well adjusted life.

That's all.

[Onyx]

Well said.

Living well is truly the best revenge.

I'm taking better care of myself lately too because I plan to outlive them all and dance on their graves.

[SuZQZ]

[deathfearsnone]

so you won't be called emo for being sad

[Destroit]

so you won't be called emo for being sad

Nope. Everyone gets sad. I say, hey, people can whine a little on the board. People are always like "oh I'm sorry if I sounded like a whiny bitch". I say: "hey, so long as it doesn't cross into Emo-land"

Now, lemme explain to you what Emo Land is. It's a place where whiny bitches run free. To me, here is the mathematical equation for Emo Land

Emo = Just whining TO GET ATTENTION (specifically to get attention, not because there is something wrong or even that you feel sad)

Most emo kids aren't sad, upset, or even slightly distraught, they just want the attention and hugs. It's like emotional munchausen or something (GOD...I know I spelled that so wrong, you know what I mean though I hope)

But yeah, I always HATE that when I'm feeling down or somethign and people say to me: "Well Chernobyl, you have a house you own, a brand new car, a computer, friends, two PS2s, like 180 games on 4-5 systems dating back to 1985, cutest show cat ever, 5 tvs, and a hott sexy boyfriend that puts out on command, etc, how come you're sad? You have no right to be sad, you're spoiled. I mean you're practically White Trash Goth Paris Hilton (yes...Raven and I have discovered that sadly, it is true). There's kids in third world countries starving and you're sad?" MAN I hate those dipshits. STUFF does not make me happy stuff is STUFF, not happiness. I'm rarely ever sad now (I used to be a certified member of the whiny bitch club, but it was actually for reasons, not just to be a whiny bitch), but every-so-often I get sad due to situational things or just living and existing altogether (i.e. people who've died, fact that I have to die, change in life, getting older and less sassy by the minute, etc). I'd like to think it's a normal discourse of human life, but I hate those motherfuckers that tell me I don't have the right to be sad.

[bean]

well put, eternal! (maybe you should go to school and be a therapist instead of me!)

[SuZQZ]

BW, I loved your last signature quote (Bitch covered bitch with creamy bitch filling), really loved it, but this new one made me literally laugh out loud! </threadjack>

[bean]

to continue thread jack: SuZQZ, I got the "bitch covered bitch..." one off a button I have, and my latest sig is from a magnet I have on the fridge:

[SuZQZ]

I will definitely be keeping my eyes out for those. Must have!

Would you mind terribly if, at some time down the road, I used them on my MySpace?

</threadjack of threadjacking for real, I promise>

[bean]

go right ahead!

[Destroit]

BW, I loved your last signature quote (Bitch covered bitch with creamy bitch filling), really loved it, but this new one made me literally laugh out loud!

Made me laugh too, I didn't know they had fucking pins/buttons and shit. Reminded me of the episode of Scrubs where Dr. Cox is like "Well he should know everyone in the world is bastard coated with bastard and filled with creamy bastard nouget" (or something like that)

< end end threadjack> (muh bad)

[creatureofthenyte]

Eternal,

I'm not going share why I'm saying this,(maybe some other time)

But,

Thank You very much for posting this thread !

[Homicidalheathen]

all I have to say is.....

I am thankful I live in the usa

cause I dont have to pump out 20 babies......by the time I am 30....

I can vote.

I have somewhat decent medical care....

Warm, food and water.......

clothes that are black......heh......

You have to TRY to be thankful. Its hard when you see people who seem to have all your lacking......but.....know that you don't know the whole story.

I find that they hide things and lie and put on a good face......or have major issues they don't tell you about......

No one's life is perfect but its not worth dying over.

chin up all.