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I've just been disappointed with almost all the women I've met this past year. Apparently the only one who can make me happy is me.

Edited to add: Someday this will be mine. Hopefully next summer but it might not be until the summer after.

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I'm not too bothered with being single at the moment since I'm working a lot, taking an online class, taking care of multiple pets, and looking at jobs out of state. However, I do have my lonely moments...

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*Sigh* What did I set myself up with? I'm dating someone now and she acts like she wants me and is sexually turned on. Now she doesn't want to have sex for 6 months? Yet she claims to still be attracted to me? She also claims to be a sexual person, I don't understand. But she says she loves me already? Maybe she just wants to be friends? I told myself I would not get in another situation where I have to prove myself, either take me or leave me. I shouldn't have to prove myself I know what I want and am what I am. I've been through enough hell to not have to play games. I am a very sexual person and a relationship without sex is pretty much just a friendship, not a relationship. Ugh, mind games, now I have to go over tomorrow and things be really awkward. I wish she didn't tell everyone in her family about me now everyone has to get involved. I was just trying to be nice and friendly with her because that's how I am with someone I am interested in, not to be evaluated and tested. That's why I find it best to make a relationship discreet and private until the right time comes to tell the family. I guess it's kind of hard when she lives with her sister. We've only been dating like two weeks, talking for a month, and now this drastic change? That's what I get for being a nice guy. There's always a test, nothing is ever taken for what has been given.

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*Sigh* What did I set myself up with? I'm dating someone now and she acts like she wants me and is sexually turned on. Now she doesn't want to have sex for 6 months? Yet she claims to still be attracted to me? She also claims to be a sexual person, I don't understand. But she says she loves me already? Maybe she just wants to be friends? I told myself I would not get in another situation where I have to prove myself, either take me or leave me. I shouldn't have to prove myself I know what I want and am what I am. I've been through enough hell to not have to play games. I am a very sexual person and a relationship without sex is pretty much just a friendship, not a relationship. Ugh, mind games, now I have to go over tomorrow and things be really awkward. I wish she didn't tell everyone in her family about me now everyone has to get involved. I was just trying to be nice and friendly with her because that's how I am with someone I am interested in, not to be evaluated and tested. That's why I find it best to make a relationship discreet and private until the right time comes to tell the family. I guess it's kind of hard when she lives with her sister. We've only been dating like two weeks, talking for a month, and now this drastic change? That's what I get for being a nice guy. There's always a test, nothing is ever taken for what has been given.

Fuck tests. Dump her now.

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