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Just because you're single for any amount of time does not mean that you are meant to be single nor that no one wants you...it just means it is taking a little more time for that right someone to find you. Or maybe it just isn't the moment yet for you to meet.
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I don't believe in soulmates, nor do I believe in the heirarchy of needs. I think some people are meant to be single and will live fruitful lives without the addition of a partner. Not because nobody will have them, but because they won't have anybody. Some people just don't want to be with others, and there's nothing wrong with that. These people are usually, very unfortunately, perceived by others as a potential soulmate, which can be kinda fucking annoying.

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I don't believe in soulmates, nor do I believe in the heirarchy of needs. I think some people are meant to be single and will live fruitful lives without the addition of a partner. Not because nobody will have them, but because they won't have anybody. Some people just don't want to be with others, and there's nothing wrong with that. These people are usually, very unfortunately, perceived by others as a potential soulmate, which can be kinda fucking annoying.

Agreed. Some people function better in a partnership. Some don't. I hate that people are frowned upon because they 're single or without children, like it's some kind of evil, horrible disease.

Soulmate = :wallbash:

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Agreed. Some people function better in a partnership. Some don't. I hate that people are frowned upon because they 're single or without children, like it's some kind of evil, horrible disease.

Soulmate = :wallbash:

I don't mind being single and childless.

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I love being married... With a wonderful daughter... Especially since I still get to be with other girls... (And watch my girl with other guys or girls... ) (Read voyeur at heart)

Congrats.

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I hate that people are frowned upon because they 're single or without children, like it's some kind of evil, horrible disease.

+1

A lot of times I go out for food or something I get stared at for eating alone most of the time, like some outsider. Or worse, looked at with some sort of pity like I got stood up on a date. I also get the feeling that Torquemada and the Inquisition are going to come out of someone's ass with torches and braziers burning incense, pointing at me and screeching, "Heretic! HERETIC!!!! Make him repent for his sins of singledom. Burn the single heretical man, for he is a sin unto God!"

Yes, I know. I am bucking for a lightning bolt to strike me, reducing me to nothing more than a smoking pair of shoes.

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What are you talking about? Your husband are your books and your kids are your pets. Sounds like the perfect relationship to me.

My pets are my kids for sure. Books are good entertainment, but not good companionship.

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+1

A lot of times I go out for food or something I get stared at for eating alone most of the time, like some outsider. Or worse, looked at with some sort of pity like I got stood up on a date. I also get the feeling that Torquemada and the Inquisition are going to come out of someone's ass with torches and braziers burning incense, pointing at me and screeching, "Heretic! HERETIC!!!! Make him repent for his sins of singledom. Burn the single heretical man, for he is a sin unto God!"

Yes, I know. I am bucking for a lightning bolt to strike me, reducing me to nothing more than a smoking pair of shoes.

That's why our DGN get-togethers at pubs/restaurants are so great! Us single folks don't have to eat out alone.

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That's why our DGN get-togethers at pubs/restaurants are so great! Us single folks don't have to eat out alone.

But I love taking myself out on dates. I never have to argue with myself over which parts of the museum to linger in. I always agree with myself over which movie to watch. I always pay my part of the bill and tip enough so as not to embarrass myself. And I take myself for the best drives by the water. Or romantic evenings in.

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That's why our DGN get-togethers at pubs/restaurants are so great! Us single folks don't have to eat out alone.

Don't even need the get-togethers. I go out to lunch with my friends all the time, sometimes even just one-on-one. It's a good way to kill an afternoon. Especially going to panera's then hitting up borders for book-shopping... or in your case, husband shopping.

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Don't even need the get-togethers. I go out to lunch with my friends all the time, sometimes even just one-on-one. It's a good way to kill an afternoon. Especially going to panera's then hitting up borders for book-shopping... or in your case, husband shopping.

"Husband-shopping?" :laugh:

I do like going out alone too. I go out to dinner by myself (with a book too) often. I'm just saying that the DGN dinner get-togethers are good for people who don't like to eat out alone. The sushi night was fun.

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"Husband-shopping?" :laugh:

I do like going out alone too. I go out to dinner by myself (with a book too) often. I'm just saying that the DGN dinner get-togethers are good for people who don't like to eat out alone. The sushi night was fun.

I concur. Something along those lines must happen again. This time, preferably with a round table so that we can all see each other.

Hmmm. I wonder how much husbands run these days.

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I concur. Something along those lines must happen again. This time, preferably with a round table so that we can all see each other.

Hmmm. I wonder how much husbands run these days.

I get cheap, discarded husbands at work all the time. When I'm done, I often ditch them.

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"Husband-shopping?" :laugh:

I do like going out alone too. I go out to dinner by myself (with a book too) often. I'm just saying that the DGN dinner get-togethers are good for people who don't like to eat out alone. The sushi night was fun.

.....I wanna go to a sushi night !!! :..i loves me some sushi.. know a few good places by me ^_^

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