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I'm not attracted to men who are either my age or older...yet that's the only people I've ever been in relationships with.

Hell...I'm not even attracted to monogamous relationships but hey...can't have everything, right?

Ugghh...I even dated a guy who was like 12 years older than me...call that desperate on my part. Not to say it's bad to like older men, but you can tell I was being desperate because I really am NOT into older men, totally opposite of what I go for. So with that statement don't think I'm saying chicks who go with older guys are desperate, I'm saying that you can tell it's been a month since I got laid (about the time I can go before I HAVE to find someone else. I've never made it two months without sex...I fear for what would happen) if you see me with an older guy :laugh:.

I wish I could be like all my guy friends and go celebate (such a foreign idea to me, so much so that I can't even spell it right :laugh:) until the right person comes along...BUT like I said, I has needs and those needs are more for getting laid than getting a relationship. Usually the getting laid ends up with having a pesky guy attached to me that I can't get rid of (i.e. a relationship).

LUCKILY...I got lucky with Raven. Gotta figure that's the best that I can do. So the last time I was desperate I ended up with a good one. The only reason I didn't want to date him at first is because I was his best friend and I figured it would make eveything weird, but hell, I needed to get laid so I didn't care atm. Selfishly that night at CC I was willing to throw away a 6 year best-friendship for sex, just to give you an idea of how much I need to get laid. Glad this time it's actually working out :laugh:.

I will say one thing for you MD, don't care what other people think about it. It's been said, but it's the truth. And one thing, keep in mind it's a lot more normal for a young girl to be with an older guy rather than vice versa. SO...as much as it may be "frowned upon" by some people, be glad you're not me :laugh:. People think I'm psychotic because I <3 me some younger boys...seriously.

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If that happened, who would the younger men have to practice on?

PSSSSHHHT...

You mean to tell me that you know who I am but don't know the answer to this.

If I weren't in a relationship....me, that's who! :cool

You other girls can keep your old and tainted men :tongue:. I like stuff brand new, not much for hand-me-downs.

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Have fun robin' the grave! :cool

:laugh:

I know how you feel, I have a HUGE crush on my Chemistry teacher, though he is old enough to be my father ( I'm sad about it to, I don't think he would ever consider dating me just from an ethical stand point)

He is brillant, funny, and plays board games!!! =) To bad =( ...

All I can say MD is follow what your heart tells you, your young even if you make a mistake when dating said person. Thats what being young is about, making mistakes and learning from them. I wish you good luck and that things work out =)

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I suppose you should be doing what feels right for you at the time. For me, as I've got older I found myself attracted to older men or even considered dating anyone in their 40's and beyond. When I was in my mid-late twenties it was same aged men. Though I've never slept with anyone over 40.

Edit Reason; Hey, things change!

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i've dated several years on either side of my age, and to be honest, i much prefer the company of younger women, mainly because most of the older women i meet are jaded, bitter, angry, and can't seem to let go of their baggage. younger women have a vitality, an innocence, and (typically) such a positive take on life, that they're genuinely a pleasure to be around. you might find that men older than you feel the same...

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i've dated several years on either side of my age, and to be honest, i much prefer the company of younger women, mainly because most of the older women i meet are jaded, bitter, angry, and can't seem to let go of their baggage. younger women have a vitality, an innocence, and (typically) such a positive take on life, that they're genuinely a pleasure to be around. you might find that men older than you feel the same...

I need to hang out where you do more often...

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:laugh:

I know how you feel, I have a HUGE crush on my Chemistry teacher, though he is old enough to be my father ( I'm sad about it to, I don't think he would ever consider dating me just from an ethical stand point)

He is brillant, funny, and plays board games!!! =) To bad =( ...

All I can say MD is follow what your heart tells you, your young even if you make a mistake when dating said person. Thats what being young is about, making mistakes and learning from them. I wish you good luck and that things work out =)

THANXXX

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Well...personally my parents are only 2 years apart and say that is all I am allowed to have as well. Which personally I think this is a bullshit statement and keep in mind my parents also say that my husband MUST be white. *rolls eyes*

Being about your age, I can see your point, your worries, and your obstacles. (FYI i'm 19.) I have found myself in the same situation but only he is a few years short of being the age of my parents, divorced, and has two kids...both younger than me. but only the guy is being a ^*(@& right now and often times see's me as nothing more than a child and an inbetween crush since he has more "mature" things to attend to...but anyway that is him being a dick.

Personally it's about personality and maturity for me. I want someone who meets blah list of things and treats me nicely. There are some people my age who act more mature and yet there are some people much older who act much younger than me *rolls eyes*. So if you find him interesting and alluring enough to want to start a relationship then I would say maybe joke about it at first and try to flirt some?

From there it's really just like with any other guy...the whole goose chase of what to say and do...at worst like with anyone else...he won't like you back and will push away from the ideal, so what? Try again. (Which is something I need to remind myself of sometimes lol.)

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In my opinion, past 20 age is just a number. I'm 23 today. Kalina turned 38 this past April. We've been together for 3 years and the only reason we aren't married is that I can't afford her health care costs (she has seizures). We've had our fights, and our differences in opinions, but nothing has gone to the point where i wanted it to end. In fact, if I had to describe my life over the past three years, the term happy would pop up quite alot.

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  • 1 month later...

They can be TOO OLD can't they?

Thing 1 works in Ponticrack now and some old and I mean senior citizen came up to her...mind you...she wears this sort of thing to work...

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And is slopping gravy in a hot bin...this scene...I don't care how pretty you are...DOES NOT SCREAM SEXY!!!

So he saunters up beside her and stands WAAAAY to close...and says...' gee yer hot...just wanted to tell you that' and hands her a dolla. WTF?

Go to a strip club and creep out people who get paid for that...and tip better asshole!

She was beyond uncomfortable....I bought her some pepper spray and gave her the how to leave work safely at night speech....again....

He was like, 70.

Personally I go by a certain tantric sect rule...15 yrs in either direction....

But I guess rules are made to be broken....

20 yrs MAYBE not for a relationship but if someone approaches ME and wants just sex...then...MAYBE.....

Coase I would first check to see if my wallet is still there....

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