My Father is an A-hole!

[SuZQZ]

My father is the laziest, most half assed, self-serving, tempermental asshole that I have ever met, and believe me I have met a lot of people. The fact that I have to leave my mother in his care during the day while I am at work scares me and infuriates me. Add to that the fact that he and my daughter are like oil and water and it's no wonder I am a mess by the time I can crawl to my room at night and attempt to go to sleep.

I hope he realizes that once my mother passes, my daughter and I are out of here. He can take care of himself, f*#k up the house, live in filth, eat himself to death and slip into dementia alone. You reap what you sow, and his will come in time.

Sorry, all. Had to vent immediately or I would blow.

That is all.

[hunhee]

Looks like you could use one *HUGSSSSSSSSSSSSSS*

[Msterbeau]

My father is the laziest, most half assed, self-serving, tempermental asshole that I have ever met, and believe me I have met a lot of people. The fact that I have to leave my mother in his care during the day while I am at work scares me and infuriates me. Add to that the fact that he and my daughter are like oil and water and it's no wonder I am a mess by the time I can crawl to my room at night and attempt to go to sleep.

I hope he realizes that once my mother passes, my daughter and I are out of here. He can take care of himself, f*#k up the house, live in filth, eat himself to death and slip into dementia alone. You reap what you sow, and his will come in time.

Sorry, all. Had to vent immediately or I would blow.

That is all.

[Raev]

[SuZQZ]

Thanks for the hugs Hunhee and Marc. I truly need them!

Have to go see if my daughter has stopped crying yet. G*d, he is such an ASSHOLE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[Angel of Death]

Awww... :grouphug

[Hellion]

I know how you feel,my dad is a self centered asshole that never wanted anything to do with us,he did not even attend his youngest brother's funeral(my uncle) two years ago.when my grandma(his mother) who is very sick never hears from him,that makes me sick, to me thats goes beyond disrespect to the rest of the family.hope you feel better soon.

[Goth Brooks]

My father is the laziest, most half assed, self-serving, tempermental asshole that I have ever met, and believe me I have met a lot of people

Haven't met me yet.

Haithar!

[creatureofthenyte]

My father is the laziest, most half assed, self-serving, tempermental asshole that I have ever met, and believe me I have met a lot of people. The fact that I have to leave my mother in his care during the day while I am at work scares me and infuriates me. Add to that the fact that he and my daughter are like oil and water and it's no wonder I am a mess by the time I can crawl to my room at night and attempt to go to sleep.

I hope he realizes that once my mother passes, my daughter and I are out of here. He can take care of himself, f*#k up the house, live in filth, eat himself to death and slip into dementia alone. You reap what you sow, and his will come in time.

Sorry, all. Had to vent immediately or I would blow.

That is all.

My dad was an asshole too, I can relate sorta.

[know_buddy_kares]

I feel your pain actually... my dad is a true sociopath. I've tried to have him be a part of my life until I was 25. He never would call me or reach out to me, I'd always be the one that had to call him. And even when I would, he would be uninterested and just want to preach religeous bullshit ever since he remarried a Jehova's Witness.

Once I became homeless for the first time, and my mom really truely could not help me at the time, I tried asking him for a bit of help.. he said he wouldn't do a damn thing. That's the last time I ever talked to the fuckwit. The asshole most likely doesn't even know I'm in the army now, stationed in germany and going to iraq.

The bastard can fuck off Suzy, once you're out of there, though it'll be sad that it will take your mother's passing to free you from him, you will feel the releif and shit'll be better for you.

[Oh_My_Goth]

Sometimes Dadz suck.....

[Homicidalheathen]

I am sorry your going through this right now, its frustrating that they stay as a couple when things are so bad for everyone involved...does your mother still love him or is she not aware enough to care?

I guess its no ones place to say they have tol separate for care, its to bad this country doesn't provide for its old people anymore with benefits and such and its getting placed on the families...but for most cultures it is I guess.

Hope he chills out soon and realizes he is about to find himself alone, that might make him act a bit more tolerable.

[Scales]

I can empathize. Wish you luck in getting him out of your life soon.

[Shade Everdark]

It's a pity you can't tell him exactly what you think of him, right now....

[SuZQZ]

Thank you all for the support. That's why I love you all so much. I can not express how much it means to me.

Today when I got home from work my dad was outside. My mom told me not to wait until she dies to move out. She wants me to get out sooner. She said she was mortified by my father's behavior and knows it's only going to get worse. She even told me to keep the rent money and bank it. I am just so torn. How can I abandon my mother while this horrible disease progresses and she needs us so much, but how can I leave my daughter around my father when my mother is physically incapable to intervien if necessary.

The short term solution is that I am going to see if I can get my daughter into a day camp near my work. When school starts back up, she gets home only 15 minutes before I do. Then I can still be here for my mom, build my savings, and my daughter will only be around my dad when I am here.

Thank you all again!

[TygerLili]

*big hugs* So sorry you're going through all of this. I hope you can work something out soon.

[Hellion]

Thank you all for the support. That's why I love you all so much. I can not express how much it means to me.

Today when I got home from work my dad was outside. My mom told me not to wait until she dies to move out. She wants me to get out sooner. She said she was mortified by my father's behavior and knows it's only going to get worse. She even told me to keep the rent money and bank it. I am just so torn. How can I abandon my mother while this horrible disease progresses and she needs us so much, but how can I leave my daughter around my father when my mother is physically incapable to intervien if necessary.

The short term solution is that I am going to see if I can get my daughter into a day camp near my work. When school starts back up, she gets home only 15 minutes before I do. Then I can still be here for my mom, build my savings, and my daughter will only be around my dad when I am here.

Thank you all again!

Your very welcome

[Burrich1]

Sorry SuZQZ. I can't imagine what it would be like with your mom's condition and not having your dad as a part of your trusted emotional network and being able to rely on him to help. Best wishes and prayers to your family again.

[twilight]

My father is the laziest, most half assed, self-serving, tempermental asshole that I have ever met, and believe me I have met a lot of people. The fact that I have to leave my mother in his care during the day while I am at work scares me and infuriates me. Add to that the fact that he and my daughter are like oil and water and it's no wonder I am a mess by the time I can crawl to my room at night and attempt to go to sleep.

I hope he realizes that once my mother passes, my daughter and I are out of here. He can take care of himself, f*#k up the house, live in filth, eat himself to death and slip into dementia alone. You reap what you sow, and his will come in time.

Sorry, all. Had to vent immediately or I would blow.

That is all.

I sort of know what you mean but its not my dad. It is my stepdad. He is an asshole. period. Makes my life a living hell.

[Homicidalheathen]

Quote: My mom told me not to wait until she dies to move out.

That part is so sad...it brought tears to my eyes. In her poor health she should not have to worry about such things...this sucks...

Maybe you three women should all just disappear on his ass....

[Nerdcore]

Have u talked to ur mom about mabey getting her into assisted living.. Then u don't have to worrie about ur dad fucking up and u two can get the hell out of there..?? I'm a cna and I know tons of good homes u can get into... the one I'm at is really good.. Its in royal oak... I don't know just a suggesation.. If u need to talk more pm me.. Good luck and *hug*