Nice guys finish last?

[Goth Brooks]

http://www.detroitgothic.net/index.php?showtopic=22727

Someone obviously didn't take KBK and my own advice.

[EAF (1)]

First off ANY good person I think is fucked over in life...not just men...not just women...but both. The good people on each end...the actual good people in the world, know they are screwed over in life and are still good people reguardless. So there's no point in bitching about i'm soo nice and don't get shit, because good people know they will never get anything, unless they scratch thier way through all the bullshit in society.

People do stupid stuff like go oh this person is sooo sweet and I love them...swoon...but really it is their dissfigured reality of what love is that screws them over. It is our general perception of what we want and need that fucks us over when we try to find someone to love. If your true to yourself and true to others about who you are and what your about...then you will find someone who loves you for who you are.

Then again that's just my opinion.

[alaska sunrise]

wow...seems like alot of negative puplis on the board these days.....

Life to me is what you make it....every episode or chapter one encounters only sets themselves up for something on the rise....Unless you are one who dwells and deprives yourself of understanding and viewing the postive chapters in life then you will indeed understand the divine grace that was given to us ...to love and to learn........ everything i have or own or grew to be I developed with yes the help of my family but I earned it with every ounce of my drive and that also develops the ability to appreciate life for what it is...

[Oh_My_Goth]

actually, the name of this thread should be...

"doormats finish last"...

Agreed Sir.....

[SaGa]

or need to move to germany and get a good dominatrix....but yah i fall into being a nice guy to much, but you know what i dont care, if a chick wants a badass she wont change that. i think its more of the demographics of how many chicks want a badass is it 90% while the 10% who want a nice guy have them.

the world really isnt equal between genders on likes and dislikes. much like a gay guy in a southern church wont get anywhere, nice guys have a place, just not ANYWHERE near detroit.

[sass_in_the_pants]

I only know you all in the internet world (I'm a ninja, you see. I'm very, very busy ninjaing, no time for CC nonsense), so I don't know how old you are, but usually after a few years of 'WHY won't Tommy Lee stop beating me?' a woman wakes up and realizes it's because he's Tommy Lee, and she starts dating...well, this is a bad example, cuz she started dating Kid Rock, who has stringy hair and a fedora, but my point is that women who love jerks eventually snap out of it.

Or not.

But there ARE just as many sweet and nice women out there. And remember, you don't need for every woman to fall in love with you, just one.

[Shade Everdark]

I only know you all in the internet world (I'm a ninja, you see. I'm very, very busy ninjaing, no time for CC nonsense), so I don't know how old you are, but usually after a few years of 'WHY won't Tommy Lee stop beating me?' a woman wakes up and realizes it's because he's Tommy Lee, and she starts dating...well, this is a bad example, cuz she started dating Kid Rock, who has stringy hair and a fedora, but my point is that women who love jerks eventually snap out of it.

Or not.

But there ARE just as many sweet and nice women out there. And remember, you don't need for every woman to fall in love with you, just one.

Oh, but my dear Sass, every woman already has fallen in love with me. Even if they don't realize it yet!

[EAF (1)]

Oh, but my dear Sass, every woman already has fallen in love with me. Even if they don't realize it yet!

*GASP* You figured out our secret?!!!!!

:bunny:

[torn asunder]

Oh, but my dear Sass, every woman already has fallen in love with me. Even if they don't realize it yet!

aahh.. that explains a lot...

[Simon Bar Sinister]

Kid Rock, who has stringy hair and a fedora

...not to mention quite the bald spot.

[twiztid_mind08]

more and more each year it seems like girls are going for looks and bad asses. then complaining that they are in a horrible relationship yet there best friend is there or just a friend saying i told you so. through most of my years i am the friend that warns the girl not to date the guy he will break your heart while having a crush on the girl and she dates the guy and then comes crying to me.

any one have any stories or is the statement nice guys finish last false?

Somtimes it seems like girls are blinded i guess they think something good is gonna come out of them dating what they are looking for a bad ass and someone who looks Hot or something then they end up getting hurt in more ways than one then they come crying after u warn them constantly that that guy is no good for them. Wil they ever learn is the question that will continue to jog through my head forever!