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One time, years ago, this guy at City Club tried to talk me into going to flirt with his friend. If the friend had approached me himself, I probably would have given him the benefit of the doubt and talked to him for a few minutes, whether I thought he was interesting or not, but that was really creepy.

Note to inept flirters: never send your friend over to do your bidding. I'm not scary, and if you're too much of a pussy to approach me yourself then you couldn't handle me anyway. I think most women (and probably a lot of men) feel this way.

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One time, years ago, this guy at City Club tried to talk me into going to flirt with his friend. If the friend had approached me himself, I probably would have given him the benefit of the doubt and talked to him for a few minutes, whether I thought he was interesting or not, but that was really creepy.

Note to inept flirters: never send your friend over to do your bidding. I'm not scary, and if you're too much of a pussy to approach me yourself then you couldn't handle me anyway. I think most women (and probably a lot of men) feel this way.

Hey, it worked for me.

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My friend is back in the dating scene for the first time in 20 yrs.

(and he was married to a psycho bitch from hell so his confidence is...not...)

He was all worried about flirting...kissing...

But not anymore! He said its coming natural to him...

I think humans are like that. Its hardwired in a way....

Like kittens taken from mommy too soon...they still learn to hunt on their own.

Coarse its easier for girls mostly cause guys are 'expected' to make the first move in most cultures...

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Personally, I prefer the ninja method of flirting. Sneak in, flirt with them so no one realizes its happening, and sneak out. :shuriken:

Sometimes I am so good at it; even I don't realize I just did it. :unsure:

SO like umm.. do the girls actually KNOW you're flirting with them? I mean.. how successful is it if even THEY don't know?? *raises eyebrow* hmm...

Maybe you're only into chicks who can pick up on subtlety.. *ponders*

My friend is back in the dating scene for the first time in 20 yrs.

(and he was married to a psycho bitch from hell so his confidence is...not...)

He was all worried about flirting...kissing...

But not anymore! He said its coming natural to him...

I think humans are like that. Its hardwired in a way....

Like kittens taken from mommy too soon...they still learn to hunt on their own.

Coarse its easier for girls mostly cause guys are 'expected' to make the first move in most cultures...

Yes, but there are things girls can do to make a guy know she's interested..

Of course, I was told that if you even say something to someone in a bar, they consider that hitting on them. I didn't know that.. :/

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SO like umm.. do the girls actually KNOW you're flirting with them? I mean.. how successful is it if even THEY don't know?? *raises eyebrow* hmm...

Maybe you're only into chicks who can pick up on subtlety.. *ponders*

Yes, but there are things girls can do to make a guy know she's interested..

Ya, HunHee... some Ninja only do other Ninja; & if you saw It happen... you would not notice that either.

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Personally.... I'm not very good at flirting. On the rare occasion that I decide to want someone, the deep level of seduction I use could HARDLY be described by a word as flippant and adorable as 'flirting'.

Anyways on to that then. A slight pouting of the lips while you're smiling, and a lower of the eyes so you're looking up through your eyelashes a little bit. Now I have a low voice naturally, so if you've been cursed with a girlish voice make it more womanly by making it a bit deeper. Don't do too much talking anyways though. Simple, deep-timbred "Yes", "Oh really...", "Mmmm", and "Ahhh'"s are the way to do it.

In a nutshell you want to appear so in lust of him that you can't even talk about much.

Of course this is only if you're not having a deep discussion and merely flirting back and forth lol. That will knock the whole annoying back and forth game out of the water and you emerge the seductress victor. The best part is you can leave making him want more.... but definately don't give anything till you're in a secure relationship. If you do you destroy the entire sanction and beauty of the art of seduction. Prostitutes are bad enough, damn their skill.

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My friend is back in the dating scene for the first time in 20 yrs.

(and he was married to a psycho bitch from hell so his confidence is...not...)

He was all worried about flirting...kissing...

But not anymore! He said its coming natural to him...

I think humans are like that. Its hardwired in a way....

Like kittens taken from mommy too soon...they still learn to hunt on their own.

Coarse its easier for girls mostly cause guys are 'expected' to make the first move in most cultures...

I wish I could agree with this, but sadly, I am living proof that it's not hardwired.

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I just like to make people laugh. Am I flirting? I guess it can definitely be seen that way, especially if the guy is laughing. It makes me want to make him laugh more. :)

Yes, if talking to someone in a bar because they just happen to be sitting next to you, is flirting, making them laugh repeatedly is too.. ;) you flirt!!!

I wish I could agree with this, but sadly, I am living proof that it's not hardwired.

Yupp.. not everyone is born with the flirting gene.. ;)

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