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I'm off tomorrow... We could hang?

wish I could, have to work....

the girls are going back to there dads as of tonight, I didnt let the oldest go to her boyfriends that her dad and I dont like so she went to daddy and balled her eyes out.... I am now the evil mommy again. Not even my kids want me.... :crybaby:

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the girls are going back to there dads as of tonight, I didnt let the oldest go to her boyfriends that her dad and I dont like so she went to daddy and balled her eyes out.... I am now the evil mommy again. Not even my kids want me.... :crybaby:

How is that a bad thing? Your kids are pesky and will be back in less than 24 hours. They're so clung to your hip it's not even funny. How many times do they call when you're over? For serious? They're just forking with boundaries.

You'll be doing the no kids dance in no time. Heh, this time though... Leave 'em there for 2 weeks. That'll teach 'em.

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How is that a bad thing? Your kids are pesky and will be back in less than 24 hours. They're so clung to your hip it's not even funny. How many times do they call when you're over? For serious? They're just forking with boundaries.

You'll be doing the no kids dance in no time. Heh, this time though... Leave 'em there for 2 weeks. That'll teach 'em.

I dont mind they are there, thats fine.. its how it went down thoe... he's such a minpulitive jerk, i got the whole mom dont want us,dont love us bullcrap.... they know that not true.. he makes me look like such a useless person to everyone.... it just hurts ontop of other things.... :/ ill get over it soon thoe you know me.... bouncing ball of emotions! lol

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wish I could, have to work....

the girls are going back to there dads as of tonight, I didnt let the oldest go to her boyfriends that her dad and I dont like so she went to daddy and balled her eyes out.... I am now the evil mommy again. Not even my kids want me.... crybaby.gif

If I may, hugs

I am sick. No voice. I am very, very, very out of it.

Have a good week DGN

hugs,

april

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I dont mind they are there, thats fine.. its how it went down thoe... he's such a minpulitive jerk, i got the whole mom dont want us,dont love us bullcrap.... they know that not true.. he makes me look like such a useless person to everyone.... it just hurts ontop of other things.... :/ ill get over it soon thoe you know me.... bouncing ball of emotions! lol

Of course they know that's not true... that's just what kids do, it's the whole testing limits thing... and believe it or not "everyone" knows that, too. When kids try that kind of manipulative silliness, I highly recommend the Love and Logic technique: Do NOT engage; just respond to every accusation with a sigh and "I know..." in a kind of neutral-but-put-upon tone. You can alternate it with a GENUINE smile and "Love you too much to argue". It honestly works wonders.

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I'm feeling alright. Tired. Yesterday, I quite litterally, spent in bed. Not sad or depressed. it was just one of those days where my bed was comfy, I had kitties surrounding me, and I didn't want to leave LOL only getting up to go potty. Truth be told, that's really the ONLY good thing about not having a job... lol

I'm a little doubtful that the coffee shop thing will work. only because she's got a habit of not following through on projects... BUT she's stuck with it, thus far (several months, so far!) so my mind is starting to change. We've gone around and taken down names and numbers of places that are available. Just waiting to hear back from some of them...

My wrist has begun to bother me again (the one I suspect I broke, back in August), but that's just the weather. Its snowing out. Its so pretty, but I've been tired of snow since the first weekend I saw it, when I moved here LOL

Health wise, I have no idea what's wrong with me. I've been having issues (of the girl variety), since October. Not constant, but more "on" than "off". I don't feel light headed and its not doing anything that's scary. Its just annoying...

I am sticking more to the diet I'm suppose to be eating. Once I get a job, I plan to get back on Metformine.... and maybe find a Doctor that will listen better, to my needs, instead of the bs of "I'm the doctor, I know better"... well, sometimes they don't know better... I've lived in this body for 24 years, now. I think I know my own body and know when something's gone wonky.

I know there is an upside to everything.. Just gotta turn over enough rocks to find it lol

:)

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