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Thankful to my family (you guys on here) and strong also buzzed:-)

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Feeling positive about things for once,I'm glad I found you all.

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Frustrated that an endless parade of friends over the years seem to need me and tell me what a great friend I am, and I spend as much time as I possibly can trying to be supportive with my limited resources. I'm happy to be there! ... but then when they aren't having any crisis, and they don't need me as an emotional pit stop, I'm persona non grata and they can't be bothered to take 5 minutes to even let me know they are alive. I'm lucky if they'll squeak out any time at all for me, or hell.. even return my calls/email/whatever.

Its not overly depressing as I know its just a sad, sad fact of life. Even the best people seem to pull this on me. Its just a sad reality. :confused:

Happens with guy friends, girl friends, younger, older, doesn't seem to matter. If they aren't having some huge crisis, I'm not on the dick buffet plate or a romantic interest, I'm expendable. It wouldn't be so bad if it was just one person or some such, its just so obvious over time. "I'm busy" is a horrible excuse. No one is so busy for weeks on end they can't take 15 minutes here and there.

They are feeling good so who needs me anymore? Everyone is expendable I guess, but having it be so obvious is a drag.

Despite that I'm focusing on staying upbeat doesn't do any good to let things get to you. I work at it all the time, it takes a lot of work and I keep at it. It isn't all that obvious how hard I'm working at it from the outside looking in. *keeps it up* :)

I feel that I can identify with this post, all too well.

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Like a complete freaking idiot, I am way too busy and way too booked, and feeling way too stressed.. GRRRRRRRRRRR

Just breathe!!!!!!!! :kiss:grouphug

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I feel that I can identify with this post, all too well.

Hey..at least you guys get called upon to be wet shoulders. Hardly anyone even keeps in contact with me, anymore. I think most of my oldest friends have completely forgotten I'm alive. Perhaps it shouldn't be so important for me to want to validate old friendships. I have plenty of good, new friends.

As for how I am feeling this very moment....very, very helpless.

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I'm a little shook up... Was in a car accident a little bit ago. Don't worry, I'm fine, Steph's fine. We just feel like shit lol

Stupid short old man ain't got no business driving... and because we hit him from behind, its our fault. erg... he couldn't read her info to take it down, yet he's driving?!?!?! WTF?!

ok, so I'm a little upset, as well. erg.. :sad:

Sorry to hear. :grouphug . Blessed Be to both of you.

I am okay. I am going to be seeing my niece today(this is one of my nieces that has four legs and barks, but she is my friend's baby)

If I may, may everyone here have a Bless Weekend,

april

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Hey..at least you guys get called upon to be wet shoulders. Hardly anyone even keeps in contact with me, anymore. I think most of my oldest friends have completely forgotten I'm alive. Perhaps it shouldn't be so important for me to want to validate old friendships. I have plenty of good, new friends.

As for how I am feeling this very moment....very, very helpless.

Troy actually probably gets called upon a heck of alot more then I do these days.

I feel that I should clarify that Troy's post doesn't really apply to my life currently at the moment, but it used to.

So, I know how that feels being in that scenario.

I feel that I should direct my energies to the task at hand, which is achieving goals I've set for myself.

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Troy actually probably gets called upon a heck of alot more then I do these days.

I feel that I should clarify that Troy's post doesn't really apply to my life currently at the moment, but it used to.

So, I know how that feels being in that scenario.

I feel that I should direct my energies to the task at hand, which is achieving goals I've set for myself.

*hopes one of those goals is coming to Michigan and hanging with your friends* :whistle: Not to push or anything..:evil:

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*hopes one of those goals is coming to Michigan and hanging with your friends* :whistle: Not to push or anything..:evil:

I feel that is still on my "to-do" list, but got pushed back on the list alittle bit, due the current goal I'm working on achieving.

I also just felt a small ache in my shoulder, which may or may not be age related.

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Frustrated that an endless parade of friends over the years seem to need me and tell me what a great friend I am, and I spend as much time as I possibly can trying to be supportive with my limited resources. I'm happy to be there! ... but then when they aren't having any crisis, and they don't need me as an emotional pit stop, I'm persona non grata and they can't be bothered to take 5 minutes to even let me know they are alive. I'm lucky if they'll squeak out any time at all for me, or hell.. even return my calls/email/whatever.

Its not overly depressing as I know its just a sad, sad fact of life. Even the best people seem to pull this on me. Its just a sad reality. :confused:

Happens with guy friends, girl friends, younger, older, doesn't seem to matter. If they aren't having some huge crisis, I'm not on the dick buffet plate or a romantic interest, I'm expendable. It wouldn't be so bad if it was just one person or some such, its just so obvious over time. "I'm busy" is a horrible excuse. No one is so busy for weeks on end they can't take 15 minutes here and there.

They are feeling good so who needs me anymore? Everyone is expendable I guess, but having it be so obvious is a drag.

Despite that I'm focusing on staying upbeat doesn't do any good to let things get to you. I work at it all the time, it takes a lot of work and I keep at it. It isn't all that obvious how hard I'm working at it from the outside looking in. *keeps it up* :)

I'M SORRY... :cry I'M TOTALLY THE KIND OF PERSON YOU ARE TALKING ABOUT EVEN THOUGH I DON'T MEAN TO...

SO I'M SORRY TO ALL THAT EVER FEEL THIS WAY FROM ALL OF US DUMBASSES THAT DO IT...

I'M NOT REALLY "BUSY" ALL THE TIME... I JUST REDICULOUSLY OVER BOOK MYSELF... THIS WEEKEND I'M MISSING MY SISTERS GRADUATION PARTY BECAUSE OF MY DENVER TRIP CAUSE WHEN THEY BOOKED THE PARTY I FORGOT TO TELL THEM WHEN MY TRIP WAS :( EPIC FAIL!!!

*GREAT BIG GIGANTIC HUG*

I DO KNOW ONE THING THOUGH... NO MATTER HOW MUCH I OVER BOOK CANCEL AND RESCHEDULE, I DO LOVE ALL MY FRIENDS!!!!!

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Hey..at least you guys get called upon to be wet shoulders. Hardly anyone even keeps in contact with me, anymore. I think most of my oldest friends have completely forgotten I'm alive. Perhaps it shouldn't be so important for me to want to validate old friendships. I have plenty of good, new friends.

As for how I am feeling this very moment....very, very helpless.

:grouphug I WISH THERE WAS SOMETHING I COULD DO TO HELP!!! IF THERE IS PLEASE LET ME KNOW.

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