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Dont feel bad atleast your taking care of him, i see so many familys who dont give 2 shits whats up with there loved one... Kudos to you dear. And on that note.... why not hire an aide to come in 2 days a week or so (see if his ins. will help cover it) just so you have rest time, and time to get out... what good are you to him if you dont take care of yourself aswell!

*hugs*

I am feeling special :wub:

That isn't something we can afford, and he doesn't want an aide either. It's not like I'm helping him with personal hygiene stuff, he's still can do that on his own. It's just the constant driving and doctors and making sure he takes his meds on time. With my anxiety and depression issues its just seems like a lot to me. And it doesn't help that I haven't been able to see Charlie since before Christmas.

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I am tired. My back hurts....lifting 50lbs is getting hard...I may have to go back to weights just so I can do me job...ugh

I walk funny when my back and knees act up...I walk like a deformed ape by the end of the day.

Then after all that I come home and have to do all the physical labor around here as well...I feel like a slave and a mule.

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Cold, hungry, horny, and stuck at home. I feel as though I should enjoy this time at home, being as my schedule is often so hectic I don't get much down time. I can't help but to feel bored when I'm not running to a point of exhaustion. I feel as I need to reprogram my brain so I enjoy the down time instead of feeling stir crazy.

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Cold, hungry, horny, and stuck at home. I feel as though I should enjoy this time at home, being as my schedule is often so hectic I don't get much down time. I can't help but to feel bored when I'm not running to a point of exhaustion. I feel as I need to reprogram my brain so I enjoy the down time instead of feeling stir crazy.

Be careful with that. My mom gets like that. When she's on vacation she decides she wants to add another story to the house but have me and my father do it.

Me? I'm excited!!!!!! :cheers:

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If you build it they will come

Was so bored last night that I wanted to go out but all the places and nights like those are no longer around. =/

Next dj gig I get it's gonna be just like that. :wink

Right now feeling like I wish I was their pet cat - either one of them.

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fucking tired - spent all day (4:30p - 11p) helping a friend move, and barely ate anything. i'm absolutely wiped out...

(i'd be in bed, but i had to build a fire when i got home, cuz the house was 58deg. oh, yeah!! i'm frustrated that i couldn't just go right to fucking bed, too!)

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Tired, didn't sleep much last night. Also kinda frustrated that dad's radiation is canceled today because something broke. How do you break the radiation machine seriously. Still have to go into town though, I have to get some blood work done, and so does he.

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You never stop being a mom.

Even though they are 21 and on their own pretty much

i still sacrafice time, energy money and my own happiness to make sure they will be total successful happy people

its just taking way longer than I thought

thing 2 has 4 more years of college and thing 1 might go back....had to give thing 2 700 bucks for books last month. 700 bucks???!!!

~sigh~

when is it my turn at life? i swear.

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